"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Udate on 45 year that would do blow jobs

Falcon Eye

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Udate on 45 year that wouldn't do blow jobs

For anyone who doesn't remember from weeks ago I posted about problem with getting a forty five year old woman to do blows jobs.

Here's the link: http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=45393

I came in her mouth for the first time this past weekend.:) :D :D

It took time but I slowly broke her down, didn't pressure her unduely, but sexed her up real good over the winter. Did a lot of oral on her, which she loves by the way, did her in every position possible, and generally had a good old time. Throughout it all, even though I didn't directly pressure her, I let her know in no uncertain terms that a condition of a long term relationship for me is that a woman does blow jobs.

I didn't give her all of my time, in fact she is well aware that i have a life and other options as well. You know how women can get when they know they have competiton. I didn't know it at the time but a she was having talks with a couple of her female friends about the topic, and partially through that means the taboo feelings of the act passed by. I guess her friends have no problem getting on their knees.

Eventually she started with a little kiss here and a lick there, a short suck and then stop. Over the course of a few weeks the more she tried it the more she got into it in and recently I've been getting decent blows jobs and on this past Saturday night, after a night out, and a while back at my place she experienced a man coming in her mouth for the first time.:D Not the last though.:D :D :D I win.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I am glad to see you beat the challenge you set for yourself. I knew you could do it, it was just a matter of taking it slow.

It must have been a great feeling to blow in her mouth.
 

Falcon Eye

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Originally posted by MacAvoy
It must have been a great feeling to blow in her mouth.
Yep a great feeling, one that I intend to experience again, and again, and again, and.......well you get the picture.:D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by JustDoItAlways
Cool.

Make sure you reward her.
yes, absolutely. especially regarding the cvmming in the mouth. sounds like it was a big barrier for her. reward her for it in bed and she'll be craving the snowball action.

good for you. and her.
 
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