"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Udate on 45 year that would do blow jobs

Falcon Eye

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Udate on 45 year that wouldn't do blow jobs

For anyone who doesn't remember from weeks ago I posted about problem with getting a forty five year old woman to do blows jobs.

Here's the link: http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=45393

I came in her mouth for the first time this past weekend.:) :D :D

It took time but I slowly broke her down, didn't pressure her unduely, but sexed her up real good over the winter. Did a lot of oral on her, which she loves by the way, did her in every position possible, and generally had a good old time. Throughout it all, even though I didn't directly pressure her, I let her know in no uncertain terms that a condition of a long term relationship for me is that a woman does blow jobs.

I didn't give her all of my time, in fact she is well aware that i have a life and other options as well. You know how women can get when they know they have competiton. I didn't know it at the time but a she was having talks with a couple of her female friends about the topic, and partially through that means the taboo feelings of the act passed by. I guess her friends have no problem getting on their knees.

Eventually she started with a little kiss here and a lick there, a short suck and then stop. Over the course of a few weeks the more she tried it the more she got into it in and recently I've been getting decent blows jobs and on this past Saturday night, after a night out, and a while back at my place she experienced a man coming in her mouth for the first time.:D Not the last though.:D :D :D I win.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I am glad to see you beat the challenge you set for yourself. I knew you could do it, it was just a matter of taking it slow.

It must have been a great feeling to blow in her mouth.
 

Falcon Eye

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Originally posted by MacAvoy
It must have been a great feeling to blow in her mouth.
Yep a great feeling, one that I intend to experience again, and again, and again, and.......well you get the picture.:D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TooColdUlrick

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Originally posted by JustDoItAlways
Cool.

Make sure you reward her.
yes, absolutely. especially regarding the cvmming in the mouth. sounds like it was a big barrier for her. reward her for it in bed and she'll be craving the snowball action.

good for you. and her.
 
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