"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So taking up g1000s challenge.
I'm 49 carrying weight but fit enough to play competitive sports. Been injured for last couple of months - adding activities back.

3/10/15
Not a great week fitness wise as I had my parents over from NZ. Added back tennis.
Will start body weight exercises tomorrow and bicep curls as my guns have always been a weak area.
This week will concentrate on sleep and learning to use the Regains I ve bought for hair.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DIET
Added supplements - joint formula & fish oil - Blackmore's coz no scandals.
Add tumeric/ Black Pepper combination to two meals - black pepper increases the absorption of the active ingredient by 300 percent

Goals For Week

APPEARANCE
Use regaine for hair [already taking finasteride pills]
Hit body weight exercises at least 3 times
Add badminton back to the weekly routine on top of the Tennis

HEALTH
Nasal irrigation, cham tea and early nights
Buy gelatine on weekend (for joints as per Scaramouche s recommendation)

House
Fix bathroom door

DJing
Start work on OKC profile text
 
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11/10/15
Busy week at work - jobs looking shaky it looks like our whole project might get cancelled

Fixed bathroom door
Had a second interview for another job
Finished another job - found this big and very cool blue and white Chinese pot. I've now put Chinese plants in it and it's sitting on my front porch. A great addition to the pad given my case of yellow fever.
Went back to badminton
Finished my OkCupid profile - got some solid pics including a couple of group photos. Going to be a few weeks before I can do the shirtless one.
Since taking up this challenge a month ago lost 3kg yay :)
 
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18/10/15
Beat a 23 YO in tennis
Played 4 hours badminton last night so I d say my injuries have healed.
Lost another kilo this week down to 102 kilos
Went on one date on Friday and have another lined up for Wednesday so OLD is starting to work

Used the regain on hair but not regularly enough. The foam is actually a decent product that smells nice is easy to use and doesn't make your hair oily.

Did some research bathroom tiling job is going to be more complicated than I thought.
Bought the supplies and tools for the job and picked out and ordered the tiles.

The prospective employer offered me the job but we're haggling over 5K. I'll find out on Monday but they have been playing games and I think I'll go with someone cheaper.

Anyway after surviving 3 hours of interviews and getting the offer I have to be happy that I was marketable.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah OKC is alright. I m generating 1 date a week with 2-3 hours effort

OLD is a plan to ease me back into the game while I get more important things accomplished. What with prof tweaking msgs and dates think 10 % background task. Hopefully 5% once I get better at it. Plan was to have profiles on Okc, Pof and a paid site.So next step is to clone and tweak my Okc profile.

I like OLD as practice coz chicks **** test u via msgs and you have time to think about the reply. which of course is training for the actual date.
 

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23/10
WORK
Job offer flaked as expected.
But work says they want to renew my contract until March.
I won't be happy until the ink is dry but it looks like the Xmas ***** fest is funded.

HEALTH
Now 102 kg down from high of 107. can't wait to hit 100 I haven't seen that so many years.
finally started doing bicep curls no visible difference yet but they seem to firmer. I reckon that tight t-shirt shot for OLD s only a couple of weeks away.
was a bit better using the Regaine still not perfect.
big down side for the last couple of months has been sleep

going to have a couple of grandpa naps this weekend make sure I catch up.

PUSS
after a bit of basic text game I managed to rebook the Wednesday night flake girl for Saturday night. she's a blonde at least good solid 7. this is my second date since deciding to get back on the scene. still just practice as my tastes actually run to Asian girls. Goals with this one were one - do less texting achieved.
2 try and escalate more aggressively on the date
3 keep the conversation on her 70 percent
last date there was quite a lot of touching but I wasn't agressive enough going for the kiss. admittedly she was an annoying feminist so my motivation wasn't great.

this one is hotter and seems a little less entitled so the goal is to escalate go for the kiss back off if needed escalate 3 times minimum.

and spend an hour max. last date spent 3 hours listening to this chick talk s*** this one's got an hour to pucker or it's the curb. and she gave me Saturday night prime time so I'm going all out for the same night lay.
 

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Thank. Its like most of life. Jump in the ring and keep swinging.
 

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Thank. Its like most of life. Jump in the ring and keep swinging.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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