"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Uber = hot chicks in my car almost daily!

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One of the perks of the job is super hot ladies in my car that want to sit up front and chat. Some just sit quietly in the back. The amount of practice talking to random hot ladies is boosting my skills and confidence in ways I never thought.

I'm atonished by this opportunity and am puzzled on how to possibly connect with one someday. I'm thinking, just do a number close, if there's a connection.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Haha I feel you man.

When I drove I used to be torn between "being professional" and "having my dikc swinging".
It can be confusing though.
I once had a girl offer me her number, and some I regret not taking their number.
I remember a very nice chic told me almost five times she was single and I just didn't pick up on the hint. SMH.

Women are women, regardless of situation and where you meet them.

What I would do if I were to be in that situation again is:
Let the convo flow.
Shut up on intervals and let her carry convo.
Depending on how well the rapport goes, her body language and how much of herself she reveals, ask her for coffee sometime.
If she says yes, take number, if she says no, you'll never see her again anyways so it doesn't really matter.

Action is better than the regret of the unknown.

Driving Uber is a sure way to know the city, meet beautiful women and know the happening spots in town. You can use all three to your advantage.
 

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I guarantee you ladies see you just as any other cab driver out there and they expect for you to behave (tend to driving) like one. Correct me if I'm wrong but when someone orders an uber you have access to the person phone number who called the service?
The number is masked. And, yes my responsibilties come first. But, the ladies want someone to talk to, and ask personal questions. It's fun!
 

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Haha I feel you man.

When I drove I used to be torn between "being professional" and "having my dikc swinging".
It can be confusing though.
I once had a girl offer me her number, and some I regret not taking their number.
I remember a very nice chic told me almost five times she was single and I just didn't pick up on the hint. SMH.

Women are women, regardless of situation and where you meet them.

What I would do if I were to be in that situation again is:
Let the convo flow.
Shut up on intervals and let her carry convo.
Depending on how well the rapport goes, her body language and how much of herself she reveals, ask her for coffee sometime.
If she says yes, take number, if she says no, you'll never see her again anyways so it doesn't really matter.

Action is better than the regret of the unknown.

Driving Uber is a sure way to know the city, meet beautiful women and know the happening spots in town. You can use all three to your advantage.
Yeah, it's got me learning things everyday. Not a boring job at all.
 

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I'm atonished by this opportunity and am puzzled on how to possibly connect with one someday.
Consider that one of the reasons they might be so open with you is they see you as somebody they have ZERO chance of ever seeing again.

I'd see it as an opportunity to push your comfort zone, without crossing what they might consider to be obvious boundaries.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Some of them would probably give you a bad rating or report you for "sexual harassment".
 

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I wouldnt ask for the number cuz as El Payaso said its asking for trouble. Nothing stopping u from at least sniffing the seat after she gets out tho lol
 

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Got it, I'll just let them offer the number, if they want.
 

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...Correct me if I'm wrong but when someone orders an uber you have access to the person phone number who called the service?
This is a joke right?

Two ways, one is to actually request a number from a woman, the other is the snitch people's numbers under their nose without them knowing.

One is the natural progression to meeting up, the other sends red flags of weirdness...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some of them would probably give you a bad rating or report you for "sexual harassment".
I think if he doesn't lightly with humour and the girl is decent it's unlikely that'll happen. Also I have a few female friends that said they get hit on by Uber drivers all the time (but never by cab driver), so OP probably thinks it's not the norm.
 

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I don't use uber, but I thought you receive a call when they are outside waiting for you.
Yes, if there is an active trip, all communications calls/text go through Uber's secure server. No phone numbers are exchanged.
 
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