"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Uber = hot chicks in my car almost daily!

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One of the perks of the job is super hot ladies in my car that want to sit up front and chat. Some just sit quietly in the back. The amount of practice talking to random hot ladies is boosting my skills and confidence in ways I never thought.

I'm atonished by this opportunity and am puzzled on how to possibly connect with one someday. I'm thinking, just do a number close, if there's a connection.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Haha I feel you man.

When I drove I used to be torn between "being professional" and "having my dikc swinging".
It can be confusing though.
I once had a girl offer me her number, and some I regret not taking their number.
I remember a very nice chic told me almost five times she was single and I just didn't pick up on the hint. SMH.

Women are women, regardless of situation and where you meet them.

What I would do if I were to be in that situation again is:
Let the convo flow.
Shut up on intervals and let her carry convo.
Depending on how well the rapport goes, her body language and how much of herself she reveals, ask her for coffee sometime.
If she says yes, take number, if she says no, you'll never see her again anyways so it doesn't really matter.

Action is better than the regret of the unknown.

Driving Uber is a sure way to know the city, meet beautiful women and know the happening spots in town. You can use all three to your advantage.
 

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I guarantee you ladies see you just as any other cab driver out there and they expect for you to behave (tend to driving) like one. Correct me if I'm wrong but when someone orders an uber you have access to the person phone number who called the service?
The number is masked. And, yes my responsibilties come first. But, the ladies want someone to talk to, and ask personal questions. It's fun!
 

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Haha I feel you man.

When I drove I used to be torn between "being professional" and "having my dikc swinging".
It can be confusing though.
I once had a girl offer me her number, and some I regret not taking their number.
I remember a very nice chic told me almost five times she was single and I just didn't pick up on the hint. SMH.

Women are women, regardless of situation and where you meet them.

What I would do if I were to be in that situation again is:
Let the convo flow.
Shut up on intervals and let her carry convo.
Depending on how well the rapport goes, her body language and how much of herself she reveals, ask her for coffee sometime.
If she says yes, take number, if she says no, you'll never see her again anyways so it doesn't really matter.

Action is better than the regret of the unknown.

Driving Uber is a sure way to know the city, meet beautiful women and know the happening spots in town. You can use all three to your advantage.
Yeah, it's got me learning things everyday. Not a boring job at all.
 

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I'm atonished by this opportunity and am puzzled on how to possibly connect with one someday.
Consider that one of the reasons they might be so open with you is they see you as somebody they have ZERO chance of ever seeing again.

I'd see it as an opportunity to push your comfort zone, without crossing what they might consider to be obvious boundaries.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Some of them would probably give you a bad rating or report you for "sexual harassment".
 

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I wouldnt ask for the number cuz as El Payaso said its asking for trouble. Nothing stopping u from at least sniffing the seat after she gets out tho lol
 

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Got it, I'll just let them offer the number, if they want.
 

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...Correct me if I'm wrong but when someone orders an uber you have access to the person phone number who called the service?
This is a joke right?

Two ways, one is to actually request a number from a woman, the other is the snitch people's numbers under their nose without them knowing.

One is the natural progression to meeting up, the other sends red flags of weirdness...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Some of them would probably give you a bad rating or report you for "sexual harassment".
I think if he doesn't lightly with humour and the girl is decent it's unlikely that'll happen. Also I have a few female friends that said they get hit on by Uber drivers all the time (but never by cab driver), so OP probably thinks it's not the norm.
 

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I don't use uber, but I thought you receive a call when they are outside waiting for you.
Yes, if there is an active trip, all communications calls/text go through Uber's secure server. No phone numbers are exchanged.
 
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