"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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U only luv 1ce

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I heard my uncle say this 2 my older brother many years ago. Recently this statement 'u only luv 1ce' has been resurfacing in my head. Yeah like so many who discover this site my reason is no different, i had a MAJOR heart break. Anyway blah blah that ws about 11 months Ago. Since then ive been with 2 extraordinary women smart & beautiful. In fact its safe 4 me to that the 1 is even more beautiful then my Ex. Im fine now, but matter Here is that i cant get myself 2 say i luv u back n mean it. Any advice?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think it's a philosophical idea, depends on your definition of love I suppose. I've loved several times and been loved back, but it's not because of a lack of love that some of those relationships ended.

I think the idea of 'true love' trumping all other love is the same idea as the 'soulmate' or 'love at first sight' type of romanticism BS we got from the 19th century.
 

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I guess i tend to compare the girls im with now 2 that ex. I dont now maybe am not 100% over her or ill be nomal after a few more months
 
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