"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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U only luv 1ce

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I heard my uncle say this 2 my older brother many years ago. Recently this statement 'u only luv 1ce' has been resurfacing in my head. Yeah like so many who discover this site my reason is no different, i had a MAJOR heart break. Anyway blah blah that ws about 11 months Ago. Since then ive been with 2 extraordinary women smart & beautiful. In fact its safe 4 me to that the 1 is even more beautiful then my Ex. Im fine now, but matter Here is that i cant get myself 2 say i luv u back n mean it. Any advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think it's a philosophical idea, depends on your definition of love I suppose. I've loved several times and been loved back, but it's not because of a lack of love that some of those relationships ended.

I think the idea of 'true love' trumping all other love is the same idea as the 'soulmate' or 'love at first sight' type of romanticism BS we got from the 19th century.
 
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I guess i tend to compare the girls im with now 2 that ex. I dont now maybe am not 100% over her or ill be nomal after a few more months
 
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