So check it out gentlemen. Alot of us get stuck on these forums and in our own heads and in our phones and computers. being paralyzed by inaction.
i had a life altering vacation trip and a near death experience that has changed me recently. i neded to get away from it all after my bpd breakup.
anyway since i got back a week ago, ive felt so full of energy and life and fearlessness. ive been going out the last 3 nights in a row..ive been orchestrating get togethers and bringing a crew of my friends out. the first night within 5 minutes at the club i had a lil latina grinding on me making out. 20 minutes later im hugging up on this asian while exhanging info etc.
i made a tinder account and every girl ive see who has snapchat listed, i add her. this has been giving me major social proof as im snapchatting stories, sending out mass shirtless snaps to sloots i dont even know and getting responses etc.
i went from 1 girl i was talking to before my trip, to literally 20 within a few days. it can be done guys, u need to put in some effort but most of all focus on putting your best self out there and most of all ENJOY LIFE and HAVE FUN because the **** can end anytime
work smarter and not harder. beat this chicks at their own game..if u cant beat em join em. use the power of social media..utilize it like honey to attract the bees. its all marketing of yourself. dont take it too serious and keep a sense of humor about everything. i literally cannot be phased...i find the laughter in every situation now it seems...like the literal human translation of some swashbuckling bad ass who gives no fuks an has some witty funny crap to say at every turn. the guy whos crackin a joke at his own funeral. u just need that mindset.
i had a life altering vacation trip and a near death experience that has changed me recently. i neded to get away from it all after my bpd breakup.
anyway since i got back a week ago, ive felt so full of energy and life and fearlessness. ive been going out the last 3 nights in a row..ive been orchestrating get togethers and bringing a crew of my friends out. the first night within 5 minutes at the club i had a lil latina grinding on me making out. 20 minutes later im hugging up on this asian while exhanging info etc.
i made a tinder account and every girl ive see who has snapchat listed, i add her. this has been giving me major social proof as im snapchatting stories, sending out mass shirtless snaps to sloots i dont even know and getting responses etc.
i went from 1 girl i was talking to before my trip, to literally 20 within a few days. it can be done guys, u need to put in some effort but most of all focus on putting your best self out there and most of all ENJOY LIFE and HAVE FUN because the **** can end anytime
work smarter and not harder. beat this chicks at their own game..if u cant beat em join em. use the power of social media..utilize it like honey to attract the bees. its all marketing of yourself. dont take it too serious and keep a sense of humor about everything. i literally cannot be phased...i find the laughter in every situation now it seems...like the literal human translation of some swashbuckling bad ass who gives no fuks an has some witty funny crap to say at every turn. the guy whos crackin a joke at his own funeral. u just need that mindset.
