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Tyra Banks on "Womanizers"

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RDYnyFoxp6k&feature=related

This is a Tyra Banks segment on her show where she interviews a group of guys who are "self-proclaimed womanizers." These guys talk about how they lead lives of dating multiple women; she pretends to act like she is open-minded and interested in what they have to say, but really she's just tries to make them look stupid. Pretty much standard female bullsh*t I think....I thought it would be cool for SS to check out!

Skip to about 5:00 for her interviewing the first guy. (everything before this is a hoe being interviewed)

Also if anyone has heard of **** Masterson, a self-proclaimed chauvinist, well he is a really funny guy that calls women out on their crap and most people can't handle it lol. He is interviewed in like....part 5 of this series.


But yea, basically all the guys here are smart and genuine in what their saying, and she's constantly trying to make them feel guilty about who they are and what they do......also notice she hardly lets **** talk, because all the sh*t he says is true!!

So yea discuss SS!! Hopefully this will promote a lot of talk....I found it pretty interesting.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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suprisingly she did a alright job with this...better then some other shows i've seen that did this.
 

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spider_007 said:
suprisingly she did a alright job with this...better then some other shows i've seen that did this.
What do you mean? Have you seen a lot of this stuff covered on TV? Personally I haven't seen that much--I was pretty surprised to see this covered on a show.
 

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SrDedosRapidos said:
That matt titus guy pisses me off... like, a lot.
I didn't know who you were talking about so I went back to the video to look him up. Ah yes....the guy in the blue dress shirt with long spiked up hair. The "dating coach," who says he reformed in his ways of manipulating women and is a changed man.

This guy is a huge walking vagina if you ask me, he might as well be another girl. If this segment/interview didn't include him it would be a lot better. Pretty clever of Tyra to get the women's perspective across the board through the voice of a man--although calling him a 'man' is pretty inaccurate since that's really a woman in man's clothes.

You can't take him seriously AT ALL. I almost choked on what I was drinking when he said dating multiple women is bad, because he cheated on his wife and on the way to his other mistress's house he got into a motorcycle accident. Lol.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well the first guy I think exemplifies a DJ, even though he is buff and handsome he has the personality that lights up the room. When tyra talked smack about the indian guy he tried to qualify himself and when tyra talked smack to the third guy he took it as an attack and went on the offensive to prove his point. Whenever she attacked the first guy he didn't let it affect him, he turned it into a joke half the time and his answers weren't deadset on proving a point. You could tell even if he was a musclehead he knew how to talk to people as well. The second seemed like he could be a dj until he opened his mouth. For all we know however he could just be nervous in front of the camera.. but idk during the field as part of a joke he mentioned how his mom thought he was gay so he needed a picture or something which is ridiculous and sounds a little canned. The third guy is like someone who ''took the red pill'' and is just *****in about women in general.

Bonus points for the first guy for still keeping it cool with his gf and ex gf when they are right next to him, and when he pulled the sensitive man card while talking about how he likes emotionally strong women the crowd ate it up like popcorn and basically forgot he was a womanizer. Wow I can't believe I watched a whole episode of tyra for this:whistle:
 

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It is fake like all such tv shows. The problem with suburban America is that you live your lives via the tv. The last time Tyra Banks was relevant was in the late 80's.
 

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BigJimbo said:
It is fake like all such tv shows. The problem with suburban America is that you live your lives via the tv. The last time Tyra Banks was relevant was in the late 80's.
Indeed. The fact that they followed one of the guys around with a fvcking camera crew while he tried to pick up painfully average looking women really should set off alarm bells.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Black Dog said:
I didn't know who you were talking about so I went back to the video to look him up. Ah yes....the guy in the blue dress shirt with long spiked up hair. The "dating coach," who says he reformed in his ways of manipulating women and is a changed man.

This guy is a huge walking vagina if you ask me, he might as well be another girl. If this segment/interview didn't include him it would be a lot better. Pretty clever of Tyra to get the women's perspective across the board through the voice of a man--although calling him a 'man' is pretty inaccurate since that's really a woman in man's clothes.

You can't take him seriously AT ALL. I almost choked on what I was drinking when he said dating multiple women is bad, because he cheated on his wife and on the way to his other mistress's house he got into a motorcycle accident. Lol.
He serves as a hint of irony. Follow the way of the pvssy, and a pvssy you will be!
 

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Of course they show the 2nd guy when he's getting blown out...he was kind of nervous and feminine but he did have balls and persistence. He shouldn't have let tyra basically insult his lifestyle and try to qualify it
 

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The facial expression of the women audience is priceless...disgust, rolls eye, stares...I love it.

This is why I never tell my girl about my past even though she repeatedly ask about them.
 

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Ahh the good old double standard. I bet Tyra likes being banged like a drum.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lol what an amusing watch...

1st guy seemed the 'best' and most 'DJ-like' perhaps. Was classic female trash throughout tho plus the 2nd guy was a massive dork.

oh yeah, that matt guy.... awful...
 

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I watched the first 10 minutes and I can't stand any more of it.

Maybe I misread those girls' reactions, but I think that many of them would jump Ahmed's bones. :rock:

Edit: The end of that clip with D!ck Masterson is Brutal :crackup:
 

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I hate that term "womanizing." When a woman marries a man for his money, then divorces him and takes all his sh*t, is she called a "manizer"??

Womanzing is nothing more than men doing what nature programmed them to do. Spread their seed far and wide. I don't know why society acts like it's this horrific thing.
 

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Theres 3 women I can't stand in the media spot light.

1. Tyra Banks a host who knows how to set guest up perfectly to make her big butt look good and lately it is big.

2. Nancy Grace biggest mouth this side of the mississippi if I ever heard one. Porn star Ron Jeremy sorry size just popped up couldn't stuff that mouth shut if he wanted to.

3. Sarah Palin gee gosh darn folks gotta love those Republicans.

Just listen to her the woman sounds like a little brat girl on a playground plus I call her the Speech Yeller could someone tell her to please shut the hell up or whisper she's the most annoying political woman I have ever listen to.

Powerlifter
 

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speakeasy said:
I hate that term "womanizing." When a woman marries a man for his money, then divorces him and takes all his sh*t, is she called a "manizer"??

Womanzing is nothing more than men doing what nature programmed them to do. Spread their seed far and wide. I don't know why society acts like it's this horrific thing.

Hahaha dude I always say this shHt in my debates class! I also accuse the female race as coming up with the word "sexist." A lot of people accuse me of being mysognist in that class, but I just say dumb shTt to keep from being bored.....and believe my I've definitely interested most the girls in that class!! Haha.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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