"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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typical woman line: I dont want to talk about it

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this doesnt pertain to me..but a friend of mines GF..has said this 2 or 3 times this yr.

she has a bad day or problem..then he tries to be caring and nice..and she says I dont want to talk about it?

my response would be..WTF..why not? is it gonna get worse if u do?

or


ok, then...if you have a problem..dont bother me with it again..if ur so stupid that you want to be an emotionaluy driven idiot then dont ruin my day with your BS garbage.


I dont know how he can deal with his woman beign a bytch so much
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Whenever a woman says something she doesn't mean, I usually go along with it. If she wants to play her stupid game, then let her play by herself.

Her: I don't want to talk about it.
Me: Okay! I'll be outside cutting the grass.

Me: What's wrong?
Her: (angrily) NOTHING.
Me: Okay! (continues watching TV)

Her: I want to do things for myself (classic breakup excuse)
Me: Okay!
Her: (later) can you help me with this?
Me: No, you wanted to do things by yourself, so do it yourself!
 

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Desdinova said:
Whenever a woman says something she doesn't mean, I usually go along with it. If she wants to play her stupid game, then let her play by herself.

Her: I don't want to talk about it.
Me: Okay! I'll be outside cutting the grass.

Me: What's wrong?
Her: (angrily) NOTHING.
Me: Okay! (continues watching TV)

Her: I want to do things for myself (classic breakup excuse)
Me: Okay!
Her: (later) can you help me with this?
Me: No, you wanted to do things by yourself, so do it yourself!

exactly..don't try to involve yourself with her "problems", instead let her try and figure them out herself (no one can solve another persons problems, its up to that person to find an answer).
 
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I would try to understand the actual "woman" rather than trying to figure out how "women" act and behave in situations. What you guys need to understand, every woman is different. What this particular woman meant could be totally different than what some other woman meant when she said it.

lol, guys there is no "one size fits all" method. You need to deal with a particular woman individually.
 

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frivolousz21 said:
she has a bad day or problem..then he tries to be caring and nice..and she says I dont want to talk about it?

"Ok let me know when and if you do."
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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re-reading my post..I sound harsh.

just think of the lines I typed then picutre a self centered bytch saying them
 
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