"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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typical woman line: I dont want to talk about it

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this doesnt pertain to me..but a friend of mines GF..has said this 2 or 3 times this yr.

she has a bad day or problem..then he tries to be caring and nice..and she says I dont want to talk about it?

my response would be..WTF..why not? is it gonna get worse if u do?

or


ok, then...if you have a problem..dont bother me with it again..if ur so stupid that you want to be an emotionaluy driven idiot then dont ruin my day with your BS garbage.


I dont know how he can deal with his woman beign a bytch so much
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Whenever a woman says something she doesn't mean, I usually go along with it. If she wants to play her stupid game, then let her play by herself.

Her: I don't want to talk about it.
Me: Okay! I'll be outside cutting the grass.

Me: What's wrong?
Her: (angrily) NOTHING.
Me: Okay! (continues watching TV)

Her: I want to do things for myself (classic breakup excuse)
Me: Okay!
Her: (later) can you help me with this?
Me: No, you wanted to do things by yourself, so do it yourself!
 
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Desdinova said:
Whenever a woman says something she doesn't mean, I usually go along with it. If she wants to play her stupid game, then let her play by herself.

Her: I don't want to talk about it.
Me: Okay! I'll be outside cutting the grass.

Me: What's wrong?
Her: (angrily) NOTHING.
Me: Okay! (continues watching TV)

Her: I want to do things for myself (classic breakup excuse)
Me: Okay!
Her: (later) can you help me with this?
Me: No, you wanted to do things by yourself, so do it yourself!
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exactly..don't try to involve yourself with her "problems", instead let her try and figure them out herself (no one can solve another persons problems, its up to that person to find an answer).
 
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I would try to understand the actual "woman" rather than trying to figure out how "women" act and behave in situations. What you guys need to understand, every woman is different. What this particular woman meant could be totally different than what some other woman meant when she said it.

lol, guys there is no "one size fits all" method. You need to deal with a particular woman individually.
 
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frivolousz21 said:
she has a bad day or problem..then he tries to be caring and nice..and she says I dont want to talk about it?
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"Ok let me know when and if you do."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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re-reading my post..I sound harsh.

just think of the lines I typed then picutre a self centered bytch saying them
 
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