"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I usually go clubbing with other 3 male friends of mine.

When I walk to the restroom, I sometimes have a longer eye contact with

some girls along the sideway through the restroom. So I walk up to her, say

hi, have a lil chitchat, tell her i will be back, and walk to the restroom.

The problem is after I finish the restroom things and I walk back to her, then

we talk for a while, then I get into awkward silence moment.

Both I and her say nothing. What i usually do is just look into her eyes with

my bedroom eyes, sometimes dance and listen to the music band.

What should I do? Try to find sth to talk or just walk

back to my table and have fun with my friends? (My intention is to get laid)


What do u guys think i should do in this situation?

I think it is because she is not attracted to me enough or I need improvement in verbal seduction.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If the conversation falls into an awkward silence just tell the girl, "Alright, let me get back to my friends. Are you gonna be here for a while? You're gonna dance with me."

Just something funny that ejects you from the conversation while still leaving a good impression.

What do u guys think i should do in this situation?

I think it is because she is not attracted to me enough or I need improvement in verbal seduction.
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It doesn't ALWAYS have to do with the girl being attracted/not attracted to you. Sometimes they're just as bad at conversation as you are.
 
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Iceberg said:
If the conversation falls into an awkward silence just tell the girl, "Alright, let me get back to my friends. Are you gonna be here for a while? You're gonna dance with me."

Just something funny that ejects you from the conversation while still leaving a good impression.



It doesn't ALWAYS have to do with the girl being attracted/not attracted to you. Sometimes they're just as bad at conversation as you are.
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So, how can I improve my conversations skills?

I can talk to normal ppl continously but when it comes to picking up girls from clubs, I don't think talking like hobbies, interest, sports are gonna be good for that.

Also, what should I do later in the night with that girl?

But, normally, I dont go for her number.
 
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Tell her let's dance, then dance with her awhile, then buy her a drink, then dance with her some more, than another drink, and then bang her as simple as that!
 
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iwanttofight said:
Tell her let's dance, then dance with her awhile, then buy her a drink, then dance with her some more, than another drink, and then bang her as simple as that!
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Thx for your replay.

In my country, people dance at their table, they don't go dance on the dance

floor, so I usually dance with the girls at their desk.

But, sometimes, I don't like the vibe of the songs so I talk to buddies instead.


And I usually don't buy any girls any drink even my female friends.

I don't think I should reward her with a drink just to get sex from her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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the drink is to lower her defenses. preferably heavily concentrated.
 
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