"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Types of women to avoid?

PapiChulo

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I ve dealt with "Attention wh0res" and "Daddy Issues" so far.


We have BPD, AW, Daddy Issues, Insane, Addicts, Christian, what else?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i just did a christian. definitely a type to avoid.
 

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definitely stay away from BPD's.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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after this thread is done, tell me what women will be left? haha.

You are better off deciding what exactly you want in a woman than what women to avoid.
 

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As far as relationships go, I would avoid nearly all of them unless you somehow run across a woman who has continuously proven to be faithful, understanding, domesticated, educated, rational, and damn good looking. A woman may not fall into any of these categories, but it's always best to eject at the first sign of trouble, because it will generally only get worse.

If your only looking for some flesh hole to pump your load into then consider them all fair game. The only variable in this is how well you can control your emotions. Some guys have an easier chance of getting emotionally attached than others. The last thing you want is to be stuck with a BPD girl who sucks the life right out of you. So proceed with caution. Damaged and distressed woman are insanely easy to sleep with. Don't let anyone or even yourself tell you it is morally wrong either. It isn't. These woman either feed off of attention, or purposely put themselves in a situation that allows them to be abandoned so they relive their past childhood trauma. Do NOT think you can change these chicks. Look at them for all they're worth, a pump and dump.

-Scars
 

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they're all pretty fair game, but if she doesn't adhere to the 2 strikes rule, then drop her like a stone!

Also, try to avoid women that are too easy, because you can fall into the trap of thinking you have exclusitivity with them, you think youre getting somewhere, and ultimately, they move onto their next victim, leaving you feeling used and short-changed
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Single Mothers.

And by proxy, I'll speak for BigJimbo and just say 99% of American women. :p
 

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PapiChulo said:
I ve dealt with "Attention wh0res" and "Daddy Issues" so far.

We have BPD, AW, Daddy Issues, Insane, Addicts, Christian, what else?
Depends on what you're looking for.

STR/ONS: You don't have to avoid much aside from anything that is immediately annoying - things like hyper-combativeness, bad hygiene, talks too much, talks too little, short, fat, whatever will give you that immediate negative feeling.

LTR: If you have a list of 20 things that you look for in a girl, turn that into 4 or 5 things that you will not compromise on (I see this list as pretty universal for men and women, but there's some wiggle room), and avoid anyone that forces you to decide whether to compromise on your big four.

My big four for LTR, for example, are:

1) Emotional stability - ability to see life as reality rather than drama, her feelings don't change at the drop of a hat
2) Independence - doesn't need me to do anything that she should do for herself
3) Proximity - before the internet and phone, we never would even think of having a long distance relationship. Just because the situation has changed doesn't mean the human hunting instinct hasn't.
4) Trustworthy - if I need to, I have to be able to trust this person with my life.

I look at this like legs of a table arranged in a square pattern. Knock one away and the table falls. You heard it here first, "Love Shogun's Table Theory for Long Term Relationships."

If a girl doesn't bring those 4 things, I can't seriously consider an LTR with her.
 

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^^^^^^^^ it's actually a great way to look at this. I too look for certain qualities like the above 4.

#5 is - she must not be boring or lacking sense of humor.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't forget your Trannies, Chix with Dix etc. Unless you're into that sort of thing. lol
 

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Girls that think they're really hot (regardless of if they are or not.) It's almost like they think they deserve whatever they want and the world is theirs just because some guys want them. These women are fairly easy to spot though especially by the way they dress and carry themselves, and are usually blonde but not always.
 

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This thread makes me realize how lost a lot of people on this board really are.

Do NOT avoid Christians and girls with daddy issues. These are the most wonderfully manipulatable girls you can find. A christian girl will be your own little personal ***** and then you can control her with the guilt she feels about it. If you get a christian with daddy issues then you have struck gold. You can become her new daddy, you can own her, she will be your slave.
 

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here's the types of women i've learned to avoid.

liberal women- not trying to offend any of you liberals on here, but liberal women are the worst! they SAY they want to find a man that can hold a "discussion" but that only means he must agree with all of her views and everything she says. different opinion be dammed! she's right, she will always be right, and everyone that doesn't agree with her or see things her way are "dumb rednecks" or "uneducated". you'll spot these a mile away because they'll come right out and tell you who they are, theyre usually never happy though, they always seemed pissed off about everything.

women who throw themselves a pitty party when you first meet them- these are the girls who tell you "i can't meet a nice guy", "ive never had a guy buy me flowers", "i just want a guy to treat me good". sounds easy right? don't fall for this trap!!!! what shes really saying is she bangs guys on the first date, second date at the latest. guess what? none of them ever bought her a damn thing or "treated her right" but they still banged her. buy her flowers, kiss her ass, tell her how lovely she is and how lucky you are to have met her and watch her not be interested in you at all and then go bang some jerk next weekend. seen it a million times, had it happen to me plenty. live and learn my friends, live and learn.

there's alot more but people have covered most of them. these are just two more i wanted to add.
 

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Never date a girl that collects shoes, oh wait.. that's all of them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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