"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Types of Men Women ORBIT around

NeverFear

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Low Value Man: Pays attention to her, builds her ego, pays for everything, is always complimentary

Useful Man: Much of the above, but has some other political,social , value which she can exploit

Gets It Man: Forces her to treat him on an equal platform, acts like a man's man out in public (respects himself, and acts masculine and takes part in exciting adventures which she becomes a part). Does NOT pay for everything, or build up her ego.

Together Man: Has his own life going, and might allow her to take part. Has quite a bit in his life to offer, has connections, is exciting, and has other options on the dating front. Makes it clear that he can walk away from her and find someone better if need arises

Power Base Man Allows her to take part in his life, but makes it clear she benefits a lot more than he does. Treats her with respect but not reverence. Never hints at he is dating her merely because of physical attractiveness. Has women coming to him at all times. Will get to pick a flexible giver for a mate because he has so many to pick from.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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resilient

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Used to be Low Value Man, now I'm between Useful Man and Gets It Man. In a few years my dream is to be Power Base Man so I can feel the power of options and the thrill of being chased and knowing I won't settle for anything I could be better off without. Thanks for the motivation boost!
 

Maverick001

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Gets It Man on the way to become a Together Man and then a Power Base Man.
 
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