"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Types of guys who arent getting chicks

DJnoob

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1. Guys who have small social circles (ages 21+ )
after reading this site and countless
hours of research on the internet on how to get women, they now feel confident about themselves and know how to act around women. They're in better shape, more better looking now compared to what they looked like were H.S.
They spend a lot of time either working or getting their degree. BUT has a very small social circle of 3-4 afc friends and thats about it


2. Guys who have medium size to large social circles (ages 18+)
They have social circles but they are totally nice guys around women. They let women walk all over them which makes them look like a wuss. They have tons of friends. Their probably in their college years. He would be your average to above average looking Joe.

3. Guys who have no social circles at all (ages 21+) - This type of person never had friends in High School or College. Always been a social outkast which means NO social skills. Very hard for this guy to make friends now since he lacks social skills. Prolly out of shape now cause all he does is play games on the computer and surf the net all day hoping some miracle would happen...He's scared of women and thinks all women should be treated like queens

4. anymore i missed?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don_Marko

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uhm... it's kinda counter productive to discuss them, WTF is the point... focus on the guys who are getting the results.

And you quoted examples of guys who have no social circles as well as guys who have large social circles who aren't getting the girls... what does that tell you? Maybe game is not about freaking social circles, although they do matter.
 

SynapsyS

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I fail to see the point of this thread.

We all know the guys who don't get women. I can pick them from a mile away.

Next time, as D_M said, focus on the guys who DO get girls, but still, social circles mean **** all when you're like me and just go solo when getting numbers. You don't need "homies" around you to score.
 

blueangel83

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HAHAHA!

I'm a female and your theory about guy #3 makes me laugh. Actually, I've dated many gorgeous men, model material who confessed to me that they were "outcasts" in high school, so your theory is not entirely valid.

LOL @ playing computer games all day hoping some miracle would happen :crackup:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Post a thread on what type of guys are getting chicks - no point to this one.
 

speedo_meme

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Which one of those guys are you noob? $100 says you're one of them, or you wouldn't have bothered posting it.
 
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