"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Type of temp jobs that pay good money
- Thread starter Crissco
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Scars
Master Don Juan
If you have any construction licenses, take advantage of them. A co-worker of mine does bobcat work on the side for extra cash. Use your knowledge and set-up your own list of clientele. Maybe even invest a little money in getting a magnet made for your car or something for advertisement, or just use word of mouth.
Perhaps you could also rent out your equipment? (If you have any.)
If all else fails just get a job for the time being, even if it's at a grocery store/clothing store or something, work your time and just quit. It's pretty hard to find any job that pays good money without any schooling these days.
Good luck.
-Scars
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Thats what im doing. Got an interview with UPS tonight for part time. Then getting my security licence back, paying off my tickets to get my licence back then, start up my in-home personal training business againScars said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.