"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Type of temp jobs that pay good money
- Thread starter Crissco
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Drdeee
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Scars
Master Don Juan
If you have any construction licenses, take advantage of them. A co-worker of mine does bobcat work on the side for extra cash. Use your knowledge and set-up your own list of clientele. Maybe even invest a little money in getting a magnet made for your car or something for advertisement, or just use word of mouth.
Perhaps you could also rent out your equipment? (If you have any.)
If all else fails just get a job for the time being, even if it's at a grocery store/clothing store or something, work your time and just quit. It's pretty hard to find any job that pays good money without any schooling these days.
Good luck.
-Scars
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Thats what im doing. Got an interview with UPS tonight for part time. Then getting my security licence back, paying off my tickets to get my licence back then, start up my in-home personal training business againScars said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.