"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Type of girl ur attracted to

Crazy Asian

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what type of girl are you guys attracted to?
i made a post about how i found this really cute chick a while ago, but while i thought she was a 10, everyone else thought she was a 7.

so everyone has different tastes.
what type of girls do you find yourself attracted to?

for me, it's the nice/good girl type.
with preferably blue/green eyes.
really pale skin, and freckles.

those are the girls that i'm most attracted to and intimidated by.
i can talk to those popular party chicks pretty well.
u know, the type that have ridiculous tans and short miniskirts.

but for me, i find that i'm intimidated by the nice girls.

like for me, that'd be a 9 or 10.
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=SLORGRE-WKC

post pics too.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Crazy Asian said:
what type of girl are you guys attracted to?
i made a post about how i found this really cute chick a while ago, but while i thought she was a 10, everyone else thought she was a 7.

so everyone has different tastes.
what type of girls do you find yourself attracted to?

for me, it's the nice/good girl type.
with preferably blue/green eyes.
really pale skin, and freckles.

those are the girls that i'm most attracted to and intimidated by.
i can talk to those popular party chicks pretty well.
u know, the type that have ridiculous tans and short miniskirts.

but for me, i find that i'm intimidated by the nice girls.

like for me, that'd be a 9 or 10.
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=SLORGRE-WKC

post pics too.

I'm with you man, this girl is VERY attractive.

I am ALSO most attracted to the girl next door type, more cute than hot looking girl. I tend to have a strong preference for brunettes between 4'11"-5'4".

I think it is good news when other guys don't find the girl you sweat as attractive as you do. It is hard to believe that, since we live in a very egocentric fashion.

Check out this article by Allen Thompson, it covers what you are talking about.


http://www.sosuave.com/articles/at/perfect.htm

While facial attractiveness is mostly objective, the rest (height, hair color, eye color, hair texture, body type, bust size) is mostly subjective.

BTW, Brunettes are way better looking than blondes. I never understood the blonde obsession.
 

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Crazy Asian said:
what type of girl are you guys attracted to?
i made a post about how i found this really cute chick a while ago, but while i thought she was a 10, everyone else thought she was a 7.

so everyone has different tastes.
what type of girls do you find yourself attracted to?

for me, it's the nice/good girl type.
with preferably blue/green eyes.
really pale skin, and freckles.

those are the girls that i'm most attracted to and intimidated by.
i can talk to those popular party chicks pretty well.
u know, the type that have ridiculous tans and short miniskirts.

but for me, i find that i'm intimidated by the nice girls.

like for me, that'd be a 9 or 10.
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=SLORGRE-WKC

post pics too.
9 or a 10?!? Youre one CrAzY Asian!! shes more like a 4!!!!!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yes, to NORMAL, HEALTHY, UNPEDOPHILIC Men not including a 31 year old from "New Joisey" that girl is about a 4, but to a 16 yr old Asian guy into white chicks I can see why he rates her a 9/10.

Personally, I'm attracted to Japanese-American women with tans. You have the beauty, goodness, and open attitude towards sex from Japanese women without speaking Japanese. ON a whole J-girls have nicer bodies and better attitudes than Chinese women/ Korean women.

If scientists did a study on breasts of Asian women they would probably find that J-girls have the highest cup size on average or maybe Korean chicks would tie. Chinese girls are skinny and don't have much boobs and top it off with a poor conservative attitude towards sex.
 

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DarthAngel707 said:
Yes, to NORMAL, HEALTHY, UNPEDOPHILIC Men not including a 31 year old from "New Joisey" that girl is about a 4, but to a 16 yr old Asian guy into white chicks I can see why he rates her a 9/10.

Personally, I'm attracted to Japanese-American women with tans. You have the beauty, goodness, and open attitude towards sex from Japanese women without speaking Japanese. ON a whole J-girls have nicer bodies and better attitudes than Chinese women/ Korean women.

If scientists did a study on breasts of Asian women they would probably find that J-girls have the highest cup size on average or maybe Korean chicks would tie. Chinese girls are skinny and don't have much boobs and top it off with a poor conservative attitude towards sex.
So, I am a pedophile because I look at 16 year olds? I am sure you do to, because they don't look 16, but 18!

You guys have way too high standards!! Now wonder why most of the guys on this board think only 20% of women out there are attractive.

The girl in the pic has nice healthy hair, nice skin, nice eyes. Sure, she does not have a "beautiful face"...but come on.
 

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LOL 9 or 10 are you kidding me? If you think this girl is a 9 or 10, I wonder what supermodels are ranked 4 or 5's. Lets please remove the pedestal asap. It's what you like though, I'm just surprised how low standards you guys have.
 

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Birdem said:
LOL 9 or 10 are you kidding me? If you think this girl is a 9 or 10, I wonder what supermodels are ranked 4 or 5's. Lets please remove the pedestal asap. It's what you like though, I'm just surprised how low standards you guys have.
She is not a 9 or a 10, I agree.

If her body is good, I she IS a solid 7.

A 7 is all most guys need to fulfill their aesthetic desires.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i wouldn't rate the girls that chrizz posted over an 8.
the first one was ugly.
 

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Short girls .. man I don't know what it is about them, but they turn me on so badly (in a good way :p ) I'd give that girl you put a picture of 8.5-9 at least, she's along the lines of the type I like too. I'm like 6 3 so any girl near as tall as me is pretty much a no unless there's something really special about her.
 

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I'm attracted to girls who are the opposite of me.

Talkative, outgoing, with a wild side. Maybe because I see her complementing for what I lack?
 

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faiNt` said:
Short girls .. man I don't know what it is about them, but they turn me on so badly (in a good way :p ) I'd give that girl you put a picture of 8.5-9 at least, she's along the lines of the type I like too. I'm like 6 3 so any girl near as tall as me is pretty much a no unless there's something really special about her.
Does she have to climb up a ladder to kiss you?
 

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stuka1939 said:
Let's get real though.

How many young women 18-30 look like that? 1 in a 100?
:D maybe where you live hoooooo!:up:
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I don't know how to start a new thread so I'm gonna start one here.

I've been reading articles on sosuave.com on a weekly basis; and I'd like to say that this is the best free dating related site. Personally, it's helped me a lot but there's still so much I need to know and implement.

Anyway, I have sort of come to a conclusion based on what I've been reading so far.

I've concluded that, this site is saying that there are things a guy needs to do for a woman to act the right way and be with him. So, whenever a woman leaves a guy or doesn't respond accordingly it's the guys fault. If things don't work out to forget it and move on to the next woman. Since women act on their feelings and emotions, their actions are excusable.Afterall that's the way women are right? Can you blame a toddler for being destrutive? After all it doesn't know any better. If I'm wrong I'd really like to know. I also feel that the general sentiment on sosuave doesn't accomodate the fact that guys might be dealing with external problems and should just block it out and do the right things to attract a woman and God forbid a guy slips up. Here's my thought, I'd appreciate a response.
 

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I also feel that the general sentiment on sosuave doesn't accomodate the fact that guys might be dealing with external problems and should just block it out and do the right things to attract a woman and God forbid a guy slips up.
That's pretty much right. Confusing the love of a mother for the love of a girlfriend is a grave mistake. The second can be lost fairly easily if you change the personality traits that attracted her, and don't change them back in short order.
 

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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