SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
Although my game is far from being perfect there are two things that I recently learned that must be ingrained into every guy's head here that many sites widely overlook:
1) Always believe and act as she is interested in you. Do not wait for IOI to lay on the game. IOI are good indicators that they may wanna get to "know" you but I think the community fails to realize an underlying issue with an IOI: that is it is subconsciously validation & approval tool. You get your validation from yourself.
Secondly, if you act as if she is always interested, your confidence will be at much higher state than if you're looking for IOIs. You will be able to act confidently in your actions and speech. This can help you enter your natural carefree state which is attractive to everyone not just girls. But please do not misinterpret this as a free pass to get in her pants, you need to gauge her sexual perceptiveness for that one. Bottom line never ask yourself "I wonder if she likes me". You'll be able to tell that when she is flakey or isn't putting any effort into anything.
2) Please try to game as many women as possible even if they're not 8's or above. What this does is give you some practice and experience which is invaluable when you meet and start dating a girl you really fancy. If you find yourself returning to these boards asking questions about texts and flakes or whatever, it just means you need more practice in these situations because they all occur for pretty much the same reason.
Keep in mind there's a sequence which the game occurs: number>phone game>date>history. Learn to master all 4 IN ORDER if you want to get anywhere. If one area lacks more than the others work on that area. If you suck on the phone, start calling girls and talking to them. If you can't get a number go put your ass on the line for an afternoon to get a feel of the game. etc etc And never be afraid to lose a girl. If you're afraid you have oneitis. Remember no matter how hot a girl may be there's always a guy who sick of her.
1) Always believe and act as she is interested in you. Do not wait for IOI to lay on the game. IOI are good indicators that they may wanna get to "know" you but I think the community fails to realize an underlying issue with an IOI: that is it is subconsciously validation & approval tool. You get your validation from yourself.
Secondly, if you act as if she is always interested, your confidence will be at much higher state than if you're looking for IOIs. You will be able to act confidently in your actions and speech. This can help you enter your natural carefree state which is attractive to everyone not just girls. But please do not misinterpret this as a free pass to get in her pants, you need to gauge her sexual perceptiveness for that one. Bottom line never ask yourself "I wonder if she likes me". You'll be able to tell that when she is flakey or isn't putting any effort into anything.
2) Please try to game as many women as possible even if they're not 8's or above. What this does is give you some practice and experience which is invaluable when you meet and start dating a girl you really fancy. If you find yourself returning to these boards asking questions about texts and flakes or whatever, it just means you need more practice in these situations because they all occur for pretty much the same reason.
Keep in mind there's a sequence which the game occurs: number>phone game>date>history. Learn to master all 4 IN ORDER if you want to get anywhere. If one area lacks more than the others work on that area. If you suck on the phone, start calling girls and talking to them. If you can't get a number go put your ass on the line for an afternoon to get a feel of the game. etc etc And never be afraid to lose a girl. If you're afraid you have oneitis. Remember no matter how hot a girl may be there's always a guy who sick of her.