This site has two distinct sets of lessons to teach men. The higher lessons, as I see them, relate to internal principle.
An internal principle can be explained the following way. Inside your Mind and Heart there are dials and switches, like you might see inside the ****pit of an airplane. These dials and switches chart your internal course and altitude, and ultimately control your destination and rate of travel.
Imagine there is a dial which is labelled at one end 'Love' and at the other end 'Hate'. Some guys, probably not on this website, would honestly advise you to turn that dial closer to the 'Hate' setting than the 'Love' setting. They think it would make you stronger, a force to be reckoned with. Maybe they think it would make you 'Gangster' or 'Alpha'. I think the 'Love' setting will serve you far better, but that isn't the point I'm trying to make right now.
What you learn about these internal, invisible dials and switches - that is knowledge you can use forever. Because in every situation, at every age, your internal dials and switches are going to need to be tuned to a setting that matches your intentions and your dreams and your desires.
Even just reading another man's thoughts, you are subtly clueing yourself in to his internal dial settings. So you are doing this subconsciously all the time, even just by reading.
The knowledge of the location of these dials and switches, and how they can best be set - that is precious knowledge. Not only does it serve you forever, it serves you in all situations. Even after you have lost interest in getting new girls, your knowledge of the internal switchplate will be of great help in your future life.
The lower lessons, as I see them, relate to external circumstances. They are less interesting.
These lower lessons can be summed up under two headings: (1) lays and (2) damage control.
The wisdom of these lessons is as follows: (1) Act Cool, and (2) Replace The Girl At The First Sign of Difficulty.
How do you get lays? Act Cool. [INSERT 500 PAGE EXPLANATION OF HOW TO ACT COOL]
How do you deal with the crumbling, sh1tty relationships that arise when your guiding principle is to Act Cool?
Damage Control brah. In other words, Replace The Girl At The First Sign of Difficulty.
[INSERT 500 PAGE EXPLANATION OF HOW TO RECOGNIZE RED FLAGS AND WHEN TO NEXT A GIRL]
The problem with the first of these two wisdoms is that lays don't provide a meaningful orientation for man. Your internal dials and switches will still be all over the place after you get laid, so your plane will be flying through very interesting territory (for a moment!), but it will still be low altitude and out of control.
The second problem is that Damage Control makes men think they can avoid the pain that is supposed to be a part of relationships. The pain of bad breakups and bad relationships is so often the medicine we need as men. And here we have a million ideas about how to avoid swallowing it.
I never need to experience pain any more, because I read the Archive on SoSuave.net! I found three red flags, she's a goner! She didn't text me back, she's gone! She dumped me, cheated on me, I'm going to get over her TODAY. I don't need to ever have another dry spell again! Loneliness is so 2008.
As if the pain isn't there for a reason. As if being depressed and low over a chick is beneath us. It is not.
These lower lessons can stir a guy up and add to his storehouse of experiences, but they also confuse and stupify him, because they help construct layers of the Ego that then have to be stripped back down to reveal the authentic Self. You started as an innocent Man but now you are an Alpha Rockstar. All that sh1t has to go, dude. Time to learn about the Higher Lessons.
So yeah, two sets of lessons.
An internal principle can be explained the following way. Inside your Mind and Heart there are dials and switches, like you might see inside the ****pit of an airplane. These dials and switches chart your internal course and altitude, and ultimately control your destination and rate of travel.
Imagine there is a dial which is labelled at one end 'Love' and at the other end 'Hate'. Some guys, probably not on this website, would honestly advise you to turn that dial closer to the 'Hate' setting than the 'Love' setting. They think it would make you stronger, a force to be reckoned with. Maybe they think it would make you 'Gangster' or 'Alpha'. I think the 'Love' setting will serve you far better, but that isn't the point I'm trying to make right now.
What you learn about these internal, invisible dials and switches - that is knowledge you can use forever. Because in every situation, at every age, your internal dials and switches are going to need to be tuned to a setting that matches your intentions and your dreams and your desires.
Even just reading another man's thoughts, you are subtly clueing yourself in to his internal dial settings. So you are doing this subconsciously all the time, even just by reading.
The knowledge of the location of these dials and switches, and how they can best be set - that is precious knowledge. Not only does it serve you forever, it serves you in all situations. Even after you have lost interest in getting new girls, your knowledge of the internal switchplate will be of great help in your future life.
The lower lessons, as I see them, relate to external circumstances. They are less interesting.
These lower lessons can be summed up under two headings: (1) lays and (2) damage control.
The wisdom of these lessons is as follows: (1) Act Cool, and (2) Replace The Girl At The First Sign of Difficulty.
How do you get lays? Act Cool. [INSERT 500 PAGE EXPLANATION OF HOW TO ACT COOL]
How do you deal with the crumbling, sh1tty relationships that arise when your guiding principle is to Act Cool?
Damage Control brah. In other words, Replace The Girl At The First Sign of Difficulty.
[INSERT 500 PAGE EXPLANATION OF HOW TO RECOGNIZE RED FLAGS AND WHEN TO NEXT A GIRL]
The problem with the first of these two wisdoms is that lays don't provide a meaningful orientation for man. Your internal dials and switches will still be all over the place after you get laid, so your plane will be flying through very interesting territory (for a moment!), but it will still be low altitude and out of control.
The second problem is that Damage Control makes men think they can avoid the pain that is supposed to be a part of relationships. The pain of bad breakups and bad relationships is so often the medicine we need as men. And here we have a million ideas about how to avoid swallowing it.
I never need to experience pain any more, because I read the Archive on SoSuave.net! I found three red flags, she's a goner! She didn't text me back, she's gone! She dumped me, cheated on me, I'm going to get over her TODAY. I don't need to ever have another dry spell again! Loneliness is so 2008.
As if the pain isn't there for a reason. As if being depressed and low over a chick is beneath us. It is not.
These lower lessons can stir a guy up and add to his storehouse of experiences, but they also confuse and stupify him, because they help construct layers of the Ego that then have to be stripped back down to reveal the authentic Self. You started as an innocent Man but now you are an Alpha Rockstar. All that sh1t has to go, dude. Time to learn about the Higher Lessons.
So yeah, two sets of lessons.