Two Plates: both ex strippers

[typical]

Okay so I've hooked two new plates during January both are solid 8's or 9's about 5'5 and 5'6, 50-55 kgs each with C cups. One is mixed Indian and European the other is pure Indian.

The first one (mixed heritage) we'll call her M, is 22 years old is actually a good cook has a tidy room (flats with 2 other girls, whom I suspect also strip), hasn't shown any weird behaviour and if I believe what she says she stopped stripping when she was 20 and only done it for a year and a bit. Has her head screwed on right and hasn't down any disrespectful behaviour or weirdness. I've banged this bird multiple times already.

Second girl who is pure Indian is 24 years old has a slight american accent we'll call her A, I'm assuming she's been brought up in the states and moved down to NZ when she was in her early teens. This one has actually worked as a hooker in a top end brothel charging premium prices $1000 NZD an hour apparently. I haven't banged this girl yet as she seems to be very cloudy and she doesn't like talking about what she used to do when she was 19 to 22.

With the second girl I've had a random dude come up and ask her why she stopped working just the other week which I felt was dodgy as, nad she was clearly uncomfortable with the randomness too.

How do I proceed with both girls, I am not looking for a wife just to make it clear, but nor do I want to end up having a weird bpd girl as a plate. I have had myself tested and I'm in the clean just as a fyi.

 

[typical]

Sorry for being vague, but I've dated plenty of promo models in the last few years and this would have to be my first jump into dating strippers/hookers. As you say only the most crazy women do these two jobs, I will add that I was surprised as both of these girls were born in very traditional Indian families and I guess they both sneaked through the radar as down here in kiwiland its mostly messed up white/asian and pacific islander girls that are into stripping and wh0ring.

Thus far I had managed to weed out any girl that hinted towards being a stripper/hooker I just didn't want to deal with any issues down the road. But these two really did manage to pull the wool over my eyes before they told me about their past lives. I guess my question really is if I should continue seeing both of them or drop them right now and avoid future drama.

And yes the first one I am banging without a rubber ........ apparently a lot of guys down here run away from her as soon as they find out she was a stripper. If I believe her words she hasn't slept with anyone since June last year and most guys don't even want to sleep with her once they know she's stripped. The sex isn't the best in the world and I've had to teach her a few things but the plus side to hanging out with her is that she cooks cleans, heck she even washed and ironed my work clothes for this week, and made me lunch. Maybe I'm getting old and slacking off in my screening but heck this bird isn't half bad ............ if I turn a blind eye to the stripping LOL.

The second one I'm gonna push for a full medical checkup before doing anything cause I hate wearing a rubber and I don't want to contract anything.

But as you said I have this gut level feeling that things are gonna get sour real soon real fast .... with both of them regardless of what they both say and do.

EDIT: I think I've answered myself I'll play along and see how it goes and keep trying to add more plates into the rotation, I can only handle 3 at one time as work gym and sports take up much of my time and dealing with 3 girls fills up the rest. The good thing is keeping busy makes sure I don't sit in front of the screen for too long maybe 1 movie a week and a bit of downtime at home checking emails and sosuave.

 

[speed dawg]

........ apparently a lot of guys down here run away from her as soon as they find out she was a stripper. If I believe her words she hasn't slept with anyone since June last year and most guys don't even want to sleep with her once they know she's stripped.

BWA HA HA HA HA HA

Yeah, the guys that don't have the guts to game her will use shaming tactics and SAY they would have nothing to do with her, thus relieving themselves of the risk of rejection. But we both know that's nonsense.

 

[The Duke]

Why does everyone always think you run a higher chance of contracting an STD from a stripper than you do a regular girl? In my experience I've only had one regular girl request a condom. I think its pretty safe to say most don't ever use them. Also from my findings regular(non stripper) girls are getting laid more than the strippers are.

One of my ex gf's goes thru 2-3 new guys per year. I never used a condom with her but knowing what I know now about how she goes thru men, this is exactly the type of girl that concerns me the most when it comes to std's.

 

[origin138]

nor do I want to end up having a weird bpd girl as a plate

Keep rolling with strippers/hookers and you will get a BPD plate (or worse), guaranteed. There seems to be a high correlation between personality disorders/dissociative disorders and exotic dancing/escorts. I suspect it's from early sexual abuse in the home or school. I read one study that claimed as many as 2/3 (66%) of exotic dancers have some form of personality disorder, and much of that 66% are victims of sexual abuse.

I also know from experience as the only BPD I had a run in with was a stripper plate with a heroin problem. B!tch spun my head in ways unimaginable. Somehow I was able to walk away disease free, but I paid a heavy price in other ways.

You may hear people argue that exotic dancers only dance to put themselves through school. Don't let that lull you into thinking they're wholesome women.

You're playing with fire here. Find out why you're drawn to these women to begin with and make better partnering decisions for your health and your future.