Two part thread

[PRMoon]

In the intrest of keeping clutter down, I've decided to post two subjects in one thread....and the crowd goes wild.

Part 1. Having a girl "Driop a hint" 4 you

I like ANOTHER girl at my job (again we're talking about the MGM Grand here so it's actually several thousand employees). Anyway she works for the signature towers, I think in sales, and that's no where near where I am. I'd seen her once or twice in the EDR but never really got a chance to talk to her and see what she's about. She's a 9.0 easy by my standard grading (5'9" shoulder length hair, awesome face, approx 120lbs, nce curves, c cups) and I've been feinding for her ever since I saw her. Anyway today I closed down their pool for the season but when I was there I spoke with one of the coctail servers. She told me afer today she'd be moving inside to food service. Seeing as I'd have no more reason to come to the sig towers, and she'd be there all the time. I told her to "drop a hint" for me for the girl, with the hopes that maybe I'd see her again and she'd be prepped for me to do an approach. I told her to be smooth about it but I'm not sure if this move was the correct one as it seems kind of juvenile. If anything it might have hurt my chances rather then helped. Questions, comments, discuss.

Part 2.

I was at one of my local watering holes last night an there's a girl I've met before accomanying one of my boys. She's hot...probably like an 8 or better (no breakdown in grading, no intrest) and as the night went on a bit we asked her what she was goin to do after she left. She said, and bluntly, she's going home to f*ck her ex boyfriend. I asked for a little bit more of an explination and she said yeah it's over but we're still having sex. It struck me as funny for a second but I guess a relationship de evolving into f*ck buddies isn't TOO farfetched. She said she didn't want to find anyone else to have sex with so she's doin it this way. Moments later she recieves a txt on her side kick from her ex asking her what she's doing and she replied, what ever you're doing then she took off, presumably to have sex with the lucky bastard. Has this happened to any of you? Do any of you find this strange or normal and why. Discuss.

 

[PRMoon]

It's granted that I have an attraction to this girl. Obviously you aren't attracted to a girl because of her personality when you first see her. I've only seen her like two or three times and they were all passing not withstanding. I didn't say "I want to marry this girl" or anything like that so how do you read pedestal from any of that. I just realized that I'd have limited or no opportunity to see her so I was bulstering my chances of an in via a friendly co worker who may or may not see her. I'm not really reading any thing from the situation cause there really is no situation as of this time.

The second one...who said I was hitting on or even interested in this girl? I even put in the post NO INTEREST meaning i'm not interested in her. THe post referes to the fact that she's having regular sex with her ex boyfriend and if you find that to be normal or have gone through that yourself.

For the rest of you, please use basic reading comprehention before replying from here on out. Thank you.

 

[PRMoon]

Bump, cause the rest of the stuff I'm reading today is crap.

 

[belividere]

Bump, cause the rest of the stuff I'm reading today is crap.

There are actually some good threads today, just that they have been swamped by sheepish inexperienced bs. Then again hasn't that been most days around here.

I just had a go with an ex of 8 months earlier tonight so I can relate to situation b. Not the first girl I've done that with either. It comes down to reading the situation though. This last girl (tonight) I broke up with because she was getting to clingy. Getting her to come back and sleep with me afterwards wasn't really too hard. Just simple push pull. In the long run it probably wont be worth it. Maybe its just that life outside vegas is a little slower but this isn't that uncommon. It's almost too easy to string a girl along if you want to.

As for the first situation its tough to tell how that will pan out. Again things are so different for different situations that I cant generalize about what is going to work and what wont. I will say that IME girls feel more comfortable if they think that they are meeting a guy through a friend. For the long term, if the woman putting in the good word keeps it smooth and is respected by the one that your interested in it could work to your favor. Girls can be such sheep and depend so much on the acceptance of their peers. If your target had interest in you before that and her co-worker puts in a good word it cant hurt.

Anyways hope that made any sense at all. lol.

 

[PRMoon]

Good stuff bel. I'll just shed a little bit more light on the situations

The real point of intruige with the girl in the first scenerio is that she openly says that her relationship with her ex is over but still wants sex from him while there is a VAST dating pool off attractive suitors for someone like her to pick from but she decides to sleep with her ex casually any way. And it's not even like she's dumb broad being strung along. She really emphisized on the fact that they're broken up but she's too lazy, I'm guessing, to find someone else to date and then have sex with. I've seen the dude and she could have done better with some of the guys in the club we were at on sunday night. For one reason or another, I'm really not attracted to this girl and I find that confussing. She's attractive, has a good job, nice house, positive personality, but before I found out she was sleeping with her ex I just wasn't all that intrested. Now I find out she's still sleeping with the guy periodicly and that puts her even more in the negative onthe IL chart. I must not be attracted to her at all.

As for the second portion, I'm gonna have to give up on that girl. I was standing right next to her in the grill line (we were both getting grilled cheese) and I didn't say sh*t to her. Not one word of convo, not one attempt to get a little closer to her, just a couple of nervous stares. She got her sandwich from the chef walked away then came back because she saw nachos were the special and asked if it was okay if she got some chips and cheese too. Again I said nothing just a few nerous glances. I sat near her (cause she was near the tv that had ESPN on) and I think she looked at me on my way over, but that doesn't matter cause I apparently can't even get my stuff together to break the ice with her which means I lose. Kinda sad but If I can't play the game then I'm not even going to try....okay maybe just ONCE more tomorrow. hehe. I have to promote tomorrow so I'll dress up nice and see if good clothes boost my confidence a bit.

 

[mrRuckus]

Part 2.

I had sex with my ex for a while after breaking up. But at the same time she pretended she shouldn't because it keeps her emotionally attached to me. She even called it off a few times but that lasted about a week until she's super horny again and came back for more.

We're only still not having sex because i put an end to it. She still hints she wants to.