Two part question.

[thegator39]

For those that are into daygame, in particular flirting with women that work at stores or women at the mall, library and the like, how difficult is it to get a number close...and if you number close her, how difficult is it to get a date/hangout out of it?

Also, if you have a type and only approach that type, do you stand a chance to begin with since you're not playing the numbers game?

 

[badboyjmm]

For those that are into daygame, in particular flirting with women that work at stores or women at the mall, library and the like, how difficult is it to get a number close...and if you number close her, how difficult is it to get a date/hangout out of it?

Also, if you have a type and only approach that type, do you stand a chance to begin with since you're not playing the numbers game?

Day game is not my thing but, I've done it sometimes so here's my take on it. For the number I would say it's not that hard, because girls give their number for all kind of reasons(interested, doesn't wanna reject you, might be interested, she just had a fight with the bf, testing the waters etc.). Now if you number close, depending of how THE GIRL FEELS (it's bold for a reason). Because girls make decisions based on emotions, it's really hard to say if it's hard or not to get a hangout, so get a lot of number and apply the two strike rule and you'll be fine.

You do stand a chance because you are playing the number's game (if you're talking to a lot of girls) Play the number's game and you will get dates.

Play on !

 

[thegator39]

What about asking for email? Deangelo says he prefers to ask for email because it's less threatening and more women are likely to give it out. Also, that they're used to guys asking for the digits.

My brother recently got a date and a hookup at work by asking a female customer (39 years old, he's 26) for her email. They exchanged a few emails, she gave him her number, then they went out.

 

[maqnetik]

For those that are into daygame, in particular flirting with women that work at stores or women at the mall, library and the like, how difficult is it to get a number close...and if you number close her, how difficult is it to get a date/hangout out of it?

Also, if you have a type and only approach that type, do you stand a chance to begin with since you're not playing the numbers game?

1) a number is just that-- yet another obstacle in your way towards sealing the deal. rather than asking for her number (which really isnt much of an accomplishment) simly go for the close:

"youre beautiful, have lunch with me on your break today"

plus if she says "no" youve already got the intel, you didnt have to wait for it sweating whether or when to call her, giving her time for excuses and stall tactics to cover her tracks in the meantime. either shes spontaneous, eager, and available or shes not-- and either way she now knows how you feel so she can act upon it later when shes given it some thought taking all the pressure off you and dropping it right in her lap.

the point is to be DIFFERENT not the same as every other guy

2) always go for what you want, and on the terms you want it-- anything otherwise is not only more feminine(confused) its also bad press. guard your reputation at all costs, not only with the treatment you tolerate but the company you keep.

 

[thegator39]

So if cold approaching is so low-percentage, what are the other options to meet cute women besides bars and clubs?

The women I see that I want to date/do are usually random...like a girl I see shopping at the mall, or a girl at the coffee shop and so on.

 

[joe henny]

don't cold approach. Go for the women choosing you the ones who are interested into you.