"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Two of my encounters with the opposite sex.

ManinNeed

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Well, the first one was one of the twins that I had mentioned awhile back, during passing period at the end of school I finally loked eye contact with her, but before I could say anything her eys shifted to the bottom left. (I know I'm not ugly)

Second, this girl that has been friendly with me ever since I was a Freshman (touching my arm and stuff) Today, (I knew she did this on purpose) She stood infront of me and started backing up right into my arm and stood there for a few sec, then turned to me and said "Oh hi *name* I didn't see you, how come you didn't say anything!.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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the pokemaster

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why the hell did you post this? not being rude but what the f*ck do you want us to say? "well done you encountered the opposite sex..." This is natural man. Stuff like this happens everyday once your a DJ. Go use what your learning from the site and then post your success story.

lol but true say i do know what its like when you do first start noticing girls and their subtle games.
 

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Elti Boi said:
why the hell did you post this? not being rude but what the f*ck do you want us to say? "well done you encountered the opposite sex..." This is natural man. Stuff like this happens everyday once your a DJ. Go use what your learning from the site and then post your success story.

lol but true say i do know what its like when you do first start noticing girls and their subtle games.

I don't know, I guess I was looking for some tips on how to handle the twin...the one I talked about in the first paragraph.

I'd also like to add in that these twins toyed with me a bit during my freshman year..2 years ago, but I brushed it off and kinda said I wasn't interested..but not directly. (they was kinda sloppy back then)
 
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