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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Two Numb Fingers

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This is a topic continuation from my last thread, where I wrote of my apparent "Golfer's Elbow". I forgot to mention one important symptom I'm experiencing: For the past week I've been waking up with two numb fingers; my left hand's pinky and adjacent finger. I figure this must be some sort of nerve issue. Anyone here ever have this? How long did it take to recover and how do I expedite recovery time?

Thanks!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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CaptainJ

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Another common issue from the exact grip problem i was telling you about on squats before. Make sure your grip is correct before dismissing it off hand.
 

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CaptainJ said:
Another common issue from the exact grip problem i was telling you about on squats before. Make sure your grip is correct before dismissing it off hand.
The reason I said it's definitely not from squats is because I don't do squats (work out at home, no rack). I do deadlifts in place of squats.
 

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Make an appointment with a real doctor who will be able to tell you what you have and what you should be doing about it. You may be able to resolve this yourself but you may also end up making things worse. Been there, done that.
 

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It could be nerve damage, but you need to find the root of the problem before it gets worse. Numb fingers can be linked with the golfers elbow, so fix the elbow problem and things should get better.

You MUST stretch your triceps before working them. This is probably what caused the problem, tight and knotted triceps.

Ditch the isolation tricep exercises, they are putting pressure on the elbow joint along with the knotted triceps, which is probably also pressing down on a nerve, giving the numb feeling. Skull crushers are known to cause elbow issues, but i bet other types of tricep extensions will too.

Stretch your wrists also, it will provide a full arm stretch.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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