"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Two girls...which one?

Gumby

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Alright, there was this girl that i have little crush on and there is a chance she might not go out with me(friends for a while...) and there is this other girl who is equally as hot but i am not that attracted to her. I know this girl would definately put out. Which one to ask out, i am not a major DJ so i remain a 1 woman man. THanks for your help.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sexual

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Is there something holding you back from straight up asking the girl you like on a date, and if that doesn't work having some fun with the other?
 

Jerky Boi

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I agree. Just ask out the girl you like right now, and if she rejects you, ask the other. You'll have fun either way :]
 
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