"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Two girls...which one?

Gumby

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Alright, there was this girl that i have little crush on and there is a chance she might not go out with me(friends for a while...) and there is this other girl who is equally as hot but i am not that attracted to her. I know this girl would definately put out. Which one to ask out, i am not a major DJ so i remain a 1 woman man. THanks for your help.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sexual

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Is there something holding you back from straight up asking the girl you like on a date, and if that doesn't work having some fun with the other?
 

Jerky Boi

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I agree. Just ask out the girl you like right now, and if she rejects you, ask the other. You'll have fun either way :]
 
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