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two girls, which one?

pyros

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I went out with a female friend of mine to dance salsa last night.

We were having a drink in a patio and there were these two hotties sitting there as well. I noticed that they looked at me a few times.

Then I decided to sit next to them and after a couple of minutes they asked me if I could take them some pics.
Once chick was blonde, 24 years old, and the other one was brunette 30 years old, both pretty hot, althought I liked more the brunette.

I took them a couple of pics. After a bit they heared us talking about the salsa club and then the blondie told me they were headed to the same club etc, so we started a conversation. I talked to both of them, and my female friend also joined us.

The blondie told me she's 24, she's a teacher and just finished her degree etc, the brunette told me how tall she is, and her age, etc.
The blondie asked me if my friend was my girlfriend or not, so I told her that she is just my salsa partner.

Like 15 mins later they left to go to the club, and after a few more minutes me and my friend did the same.

At the entrance of the club, I asked them to take me a few pics and the blondie just "jumped" to get my phone when I asked for it. She did it so pronounced that the brunette made a joke about it her pulling her hair to get my phone first lmao....

Once inside the salsa club, the brunette just sat on a couch and was sitting there the whole night so I could not talk to her neither dance, so I danced one song with the blondie, and after a while she came again to ask me to dance another song. After this she joined her friend on the couch, and they kept there with other ppl the rest of the night.

The thing is...I like more the brunette eventhough I think the blondie likes me more.

Now, I could not get their number but I found the brunette on FB.

Which one should I ask out? the blonde gave me signs of interest but I am not so sure cause she's just 24...and the brunette is hotter and she's 30 so maybe she's more down to earth, doesnt flake last minute etc, you know.

I was thinking about messaging the brunette on fb and tell her if the blonde wants me to have her number...or just asking the brunette out cause I like her more eventhough we interacted less.

Thoughts?
 

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I think you are over thinking this. That is bad that you couldn't take their number. Go for which ever you want and see how it goes. Blondie seems into you like you pointed out so you'll do with it as you please. Decide and go with it. Chances are you might get the over one after you get the first , who knows.
 

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Blonde is better because she is younger, and likes you more. Don't understand why you didn't get any contact information, though.
 

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Obsidian said:
Blonde is better because she is younger, and likes you more. Don't understand why you didn't get any contact information, though.

cause once we got inside the club, and after I danced two songs with the blondie, they all sat in a kind of VIP spot with other people they knew, and they kept there for the rest of the night (they did not dance) while I was in the dance floor with my friends.

I thought about getting the number the moment I met them, you know, after talking for 10 mins or so in that patio, but I thought: "hey, I will see them in the club so I'll do it there instead of here so I dont look needy". After they left I thought: "err...maybe I dont see them inside...sh-it"

Silly me indeed.
 

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It's times like these where I wonder this great question that has been said to me before:

"Why not both?"
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
It's times like these where I wonder this great question that has been said to me before:

"Why not both?"

Both us better because it gives him more options. This is important considering how flakey women are
 
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