"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Two girls to Homecoming

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Ok so here's the deal. Ive been friends with this one girl for a long time and really like her. I've got stuck in the semi-friend zone but its not ireversible and I have worked out she is waiting for me to make a move. We talked about going to homecoming but then I heard she was taking another guy, and then a day later she hinted I should take her. Ideas?

Anyway I prepared and got a back up, nice girl and all but I dont know her at all. I figure she is worth taking out and I would be more than happy to take her to homecoming but not much else e.x. dates and such.

Problem is that if I take this new girl to homecoming than the other girl im really trying to get will take it as I am not interested in dating her and then I will definitly be in the friend zone. So, what should I do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you talked to her about going to homecoming together, well then SHE THINKS YOUR INTERESTED. So if you take the other girl, this will make your girl jealous.

Who cares about who you bring to HOMECOMING. I mean your not just going to dance with your date the whole night are you?
 
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If you want to go with your friend, ask her if anyone is taking her. If not, proceed with this back up person.
 
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