"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Two girls to Homecoming

English_Bloke

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Ok so here's the deal. Ive been friends with this one girl for a long time and really like her. I've got stuck in the semi-friend zone but its not ireversible and I have worked out she is waiting for me to make a move. We talked about going to homecoming but then I heard she was taking another guy, and then a day later she hinted I should take her. Ideas?

Anyway I prepared and got a back up, nice girl and all but I dont know her at all. I figure she is worth taking out and I would be more than happy to take her to homecoming but not much else e.x. dates and such.

Problem is that if I take this new girl to homecoming than the other girl im really trying to get will take it as I am not interested in dating her and then I will definitly be in the friend zone. So, what should I do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anomalous

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If you talked to her about going to homecoming together, well then SHE THINKS YOUR INTERESTED. So if you take the other girl, this will make your girl jealous.

Who cares about who you bring to HOMECOMING. I mean your not just going to dance with your date the whole night are you?
 

LikRetsam

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If you want to go with your friend, ask her if anyone is taking her. If not, proceed with this back up person.
 
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