"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Two girls in the same company?

Knight of Roses

Knight of Roses

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Morning fellas,

Thought I'd field a question to see what the consensus was. I have 6-8 plates as well as 2-3 out of state plates ( I run these out of state plates to constantly keep my Text/call game sharp).

Scenario:

Matched with Girl A who works at Company A several months ago. My game was still weak then, so she dumped me. Whatever, not a big deal. However, matched with Girl B last night who works at Company A off Tinder. My game is much stronger now, Im leaning towards setting up a date with Girl B. Only caveat, I know the company is a small firm with only 10-12 employees and I am sure the two girls know each other.

Anyone else been in similar situations? How do these scenarios usually play out?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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Too much mental maturation. Not even pounding.

Smash. Then post.
 
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Spaz

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A total of 11 plates makes you an expert, even I have trouble with anything more then 3.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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