Can any master DJ's analyze this....on two seperate occasions the girl has insisted that she pays for dinner and that I don't argue...when I get up from the table I try to take the bill but she snatches it back.....after it happened the second time I started wondering what's this mean? do I really have that much game lol cant be that
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Two girls have paid for dinner for me... what's that mean?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
thedude4242
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well if she is paying for the bill she is using her money on you.
It means you are on your way to being a pimp!
There are dj's and then there are pimps. The time you can get a woman so hooked into you that they will buy you stuff without you even asking is the day you have started to master the game of women.
Just remember that most men pay for sex one way or the other. Either by dates, movies, gifts etc. It is only a special few with game so good that can reverse the traditional role and have the women pay for the sex.
There are dj's and then there are pimps. The time you can get a woman so hooked into you that they will buy you stuff without you even asking is the day you have started to master the game of women.
Just remember that most men pay for sex one way or the other. Either by dates, movies, gifts etc. It is only a special few with game so good that can reverse the traditional role and have the women pay for the sex.
Mantis Toboggan
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They're trying to establish dominance/territory. Like when a dog pees on a tree.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She might just have game. She might have common sense. She might be used to guys who think that paying for dinner = sex. The best thing you can do is not worry about it so much. Go with the flow and see what the rest of her actions tell you. You can't get a full picture from a few pixels. Get the whole view.
zekko
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That's what I was thinking. Maybe she doesn't want to feel obligated to you. Like if you pay for her dinner then you'll expect her to have sex with you. Maybe she isn't ready for that yet so wants to retain more independence.
Gangster Of Love
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They payed for you, but what happened after the dinner "date"? Did you end up kissing/sexing, or any type of escalating? Did you end up meeting a second time, and if so, was it successful?
What I am saying is, if they payed for you, yet they weren't into you in a romantic/sexual way, then they don't want you to pay and think they owe you.
If they are really into you, and you have proof they are by having sex them or them being open to physical escalation, then them paying means they're interest is off the roof and really want to impress you.
What I am saying is, if they payed for you, yet they weren't into you in a romantic/sexual way, then they don't want you to pay and think they owe you.
If they are really into you, and you have proof they are by having sex them or them being open to physical escalation, then them paying means they're interest is off the roof and really want to impress you.