"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Two Girls - Deciding which one to game

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I'm sure some of you guys have faced this dillema.

I recently met two girls. One is from Hawaii, half mexican/white who is going to college in Mexico. She came back for winter break and brought a friend with her, half Mexican/french, who speaks fluent french, spanish and some english.

They are equally attractive, and equally attracted to me. I'd sleep with both of them, but obviously this could ruin my chances with either of them.

My plan as of now is to target the girl who lives in Mexico first. I feel I could get with her now, and then they go back to Mexico. Then, during summer break, I'm assuming the girl from here will return home alone, at which time I will target her. 4 months seems like enough time for girls #2 to feel she is not stepping on girl#1's toes by hooking up with me.

What do you guys think, or have you had a similar situation?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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come on guys - I know alot of you are just trying to get even one, but somebody has to have some experience with this
 

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If they were both "equally attracted to you" they would have had a threesome with you already.

Find out which one is more attracted to you; whichone will step out of the way and let the other have you. Then go for that one first.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
If they were both "equally attracted to you" they would have had a threesome with you already.

Find out which one is more attracted to you; whichone will step out of the way and let the other have you. Then go for that one first.
You were one of the guys I was thinking would be qualified to answer. However, this "If they were both "equally attracted to you" they would have had a threesome with you already." isn't necessarily true, although I suspect if I set up the situation right it could happen. The choice is mine, as I see it. But should I game them one at a time, according to my strategy, or should I go for broke with the threesome
 

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If they both like you equally, which is not likely, and if they're very good friends, then neither will go for you; but since one of them likes you more, it is your job to find out who. Yes, go for one of them first.

If the perfect opportunity comes, where you can game both at once, then go for it; go find out which one likes you. It is more likely that neither does than for both of them to like you the same. Believe me, if they are hot, they can live without you or any other guy, so they will not risk their friendship over yet another dude.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gangster Of Love said:
If they both like you equally, which is not likely, and if they're very good friends, then neither will go for you; but since one of them likes you more, it is your job to find out who. Yes, go for one of them first.
I would say they are both attracted to me. Whether it's equal or not doesnt really matter. I know for sure I could close either of them.


Gangster Of Love said:
they will not risk their friendship over yet another dude.
I'm pretty sure that Girl #2 is hiding her attraction from g1, as I initially connected with G1. When I saw G2 another time by herself, we spent a while talking and the IOI's were thick, but she knows her friend really likes me.

Thanks for the advice. I will probably carry out my initial plan.
 

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You can sleep with both of them. Read the post I just made on the 'hat trick' thread. A woman will have sex with you because you are having sex with another women. They are jealous catty b!tches like that.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
You can sleep with both of them. Read the post I just made on the 'hat trick' thread. A woman will have sex with you because you are having sex with another women. They are jealous catty b!tches like that.
Cool, but it sounds like you are talking about unrelated women, which is much easier than dealing with close friends
 

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And you have to pick just one because,..?

Sarge both of them while you're working 2 more and you'll be right about where you should be.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The two girlfriends end up in a Thai prison... their reward for being gamed by some dude they were both infatuated with! You will want to pay particular attention to the first 30 min of the movie.
 

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iqqi said:
The two girlfriends end up in a Thai prison... their reward for being gamed by some dude they were both infatuated with! You will want to pay particular attention to the first 30 min of the movie.
I remember him asking them to carry his bag that had drugs. But this is a depressing movie i'd rather not watch again, unless it is going to give me some invaluable incite on how to handle these two girls?
 

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How come nobody even suggested trying to go for both??

If the two are friends, the best way to go about it is to flirt with BOTH of them equally, and sooner or later the one that is more interested will step up...

Better yet, get them both to come over to your place for some drinks... then get the two girls to kiss, and from there well... keep things comfortable use your imagination and have a blast :D
 

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So pimp its scary said:
How come nobody even suggested trying to go for both??

If the two are friends, the best way to go about it is to flirt with BOTH of them equally, and sooner or later the one that is more interested will step up...

Better yet, get them both to come over to your place for some drinks... then get the two girls to kiss, and from there well... keep things comfortable use your imagination and have a blast :D
We have discussed hitting them both, which might just be what i'll have to do. I like your suggestion. Getting them to kiss would be a great opener for a three way. So first I ave to "open" them on eachother. Let's make that the new focus of this post.

I'm thinking, I could initiate some Kino games like, "does a girl like it when you do this or this? Demonstrate on her." Then eventually ask if they have ever kissed another girl. If yes, then, "how bout when a guy was watching?"

Nice one So Limp It's Scary :D

Dogfude out
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So pimp its scary

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Statistically, if you do everything right you'd be at about 20% success rate on that one tho (basis being that about 20% of north american woman are bi or les)...

So ya, either they are friends pure and simple, ore they are fun friends ;) Too bad that if it's the first one you'll have killed the chance for both... so I'd recommend first figure out which one likes you more, and get that one to initiate the kissing...

Key is no pressure, no agendas.
 

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"I got two girls,
One in heaven, one below.
One I love with all my heart
And one I do not know."
---Townes van Zandt
 

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So pimp its scary said:
Statistically, if you do everything right you'd be at about 20% success rate on that one tho (basis being that about 20% of north american woman are bi or les)...

So ya, either they are friends pure and simple, ore they are fun friends ;) Too bad that if it's the first one you'll have killed the chance for both... so I'd recommend first figure out which one likes you more, and get that one to initiate the kissing...

Key is no pressure, no agendas.
Exactly

LOL - I was just out at a bar restaurant with them. It was at a place where a lot of guys go that dont like guys with my skin color. It was a little uncomfortable gaming them in this hostile environment. Behind enemy lines in paradise.
 
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