"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Two dates. No kiss. What should I do?

scottfall

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I pm'ed the heavy hitters to get some real help here but so far, nothing. All ive gotten is im ****ed up for being bi and should have "kino'ed" her and ****ed her by now. She is just out of a marriage, maybe shes looking for something more than that? And her dogs on the brink of death. Please. Help. Ive been jonsing for this girl for 6 years. I want it to work. I can by str8 or gay for the right girl or guy. I am 100% bi, i like both **** and ***** but dont need either.

I had a control revelation today. I need to control myself and my life. With that success will come. So what should I do in this situation? Please help me. I brought up me calling her today and getting no response from her. She said she cancelled the date with her other guy yesterday and was going out with him tonight.

Also, one of my coworkers who I talk to (a woman) asked her where we stand today. Totally ****ed up my "game." The girl im interested in told her that we where just "palling" around, and then asked what I thought about the situation. I blew her off after hearing about her date tonight.

What should i do? Just move on? try again? I put the ball in her court. The girl Im interested in asked if i had seen the movie I asked her out to see.. I told her that I hadent and that I wanted to see it with her.

Please. Help me. Ahhhh... :p

Thanks for the advice.

PLEASE HELP! :cuss:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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