"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rave18

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I was just taking a review of my posts, here on SoSuave, and was reflecting on them.

I had a personal problem when I was growing up http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=200115 and I didn't understand how to deal with it, at the time. I had held on to a lot of anger and resentment, which led me to ignore myself and life in general.

"You should be free as a bird, flapping around, singing, full of joy with life" - Anti Dump

When I met my ex, it was an escape. A welcome relief. My inability to cope with my problem(s) and the consequences of my past behaviour were the reasons for my break up.

To sort of conclude, I would highly recommend that it is better to sort your personal life first, learn to be responsible before you enter a relationship.

Don't repeat my mistake of getting addicted to a girl cause you can't face life :nono:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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