"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Rave18

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I was just taking a review of my posts, here on SoSuave, and was reflecting on them.

I had a personal problem when I was growing up http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=200115 and I didn't understand how to deal with it, at the time. I had held on to a lot of anger and resentment, which led me to ignore myself and life in general.

"You should be free as a bird, flapping around, singing, full of joy with life" - Anti Dump

When I met my ex, it was an escape. A welcome relief. My inability to cope with my problem(s) and the consequences of my past behaviour were the reasons for my break up.

To sort of conclude, I would highly recommend that it is better to sort your personal life first, learn to be responsible before you enter a relationship.

Don't repeat my mistake of getting addicted to a girl cause you can't face life :nono:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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