"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I don’t know what to do in this scenario and would like some input.

Every year since 2016 I’ve gone with my kids, their friends, and my kids mom trick or treating. Her live in bf stayed back and handed out candy.

She now has a baby with him so I know he’ll come along with their new baby. I really don’t want to be around it at all. I love Halloween with my kids but their mom was enough to deal with and now I gotta deal with him and this fake a$& happy make believe.

What would you do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The door to door candy handout volume will most likely be down this year due to the virus.
It’s a good Out to use for something you shouldn’t be Ex family group doing to start with.
If you still want to do that type of event, arrange for two outings, one for you and your kids and one for them with your kids.

How about you take the kids to a relatively fast trunk or treat if one is available near you, then take them back early enough for them to do their door 2 door minus you, and you step out somewhere else to celebrate a job well done.
 
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Allowing him to build a relationship with them will probably be a good thing, depending on her as a mother.

Plus, any tension situations involving people you have to deal with, better off to leave the tension.

He'll probably be in your shoes soon enough by the sounds of things.
 
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Usually Halloween trick or treating hours are 2-4 hours long. Why don't you just split the hours 2 for you and 2 for her while having a designated meet up.
 
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Why don't you just take your kid and cut more contact than necessary?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Baibars said:
Why don't you just take your kid and cut more contact than necessary?
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Yes that’s what I’m going to do with Halloween. It was like a weight off my shoulders when I told her because of the dread I had going over there.
 
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Baibars said:
Why not forever?
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This is the only time of the year I had to spend any time over there. I’m def going to miss seeing my kids and they weren’t happy when I told them I wouldn’t be there but this has got to be the way. I literally have no choice.
 
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