"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

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So....most of the advice I've gotten from here is that women love to talk and we just let them do that while attempting to pay some attention to the prattle coming out of thier mouths so they think we are "sweet" if we remeber anything.

However, I ran into this HB 9 as a councilor in the camp I was directing last week. Swimmers body, tall, athletic, smart.....but VERY quiet. She would follow me around all week, giving lots of non-verbal signs that she was interested, but she would always let me carry the conversations.

That isn't much of a problem since I'm gregarious by nature and I teach for a living, but I found it wierd that she didn't talk much. I got her to open up talk once or twice, but most of the time, she would play off the jokes I was telling.

Anyone ever meet a woman like that? How do you deal with it without giving too much emotional information away?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Originally posted by TheDarkSaint


Anyone ever meet a woman like that? How do you deal with it without giving too much emotional information away?
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Maybe she is shy to talk to you there? Besides if she is such an intorvert she needs time to warm up...

More practical idea is to talk to her and find out what makes her tick: her job? her hobbies? sports? travels? friends? swimming? psycology?... figure that out, and you will see she'll talk non-stop even if you wont be listening.
 
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hmmmmm some women are like that

if she really is shy, she need to feel comfortable with you

go KINO ASAP and watch her reactions

smile and look into her eyes saying: Not saying anything sure says a lot, huh ?


or... she could be trying to tell you she is not interested therefore go KINO and find out for real !

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I know the interest level is high. She responded to some KINO and had very direct eye contact. I'd be more interested in her if she didn't live so far away, but since it is long distance, I've got better things to do.

No one else has ideas on how to deal with a quiet woman? I've found I'm attracted to them and I've noticed this as a general trend about myself.
 
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