Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What Should I Do

  • Leave Her

    Votes: 13 92.9%

  • Support Her

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Work Back In

    Votes: 1 7.1%
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It started 2 years ago i met this girl who i didnt really like. Got to know her and fell in love. Then she got to buddy with this guy i didn't really like, but he was my best friends friend. So i dumped her.

Ever since i have wanted her back. Earlier this year while doing 30 days in juvie i made up my mind to get her back. So when i got out i called her and got things sparked agian.

We started off good picking her up from school, long kisses but we didn't talk about sex. Finally she wanted me to make her feel good and i talked her trough playing with her self. This was a mistake in itself. I dont have a car so i cant see her when i want.
Now i havent seen her in about 3 weeks, and our friendship is mainly sexuall. And she wont go out with me for some odd reason.

Heres the worste part she was pregnat but got an abortion. She sees her almost babby daddy on a regular becuase he is a family friend. So on the 4th of July she ****ed him. Killing everything i wanted.

Now i cant get mad because shes not my girlfriend, so i just do the friend thing and support her decision.

What that **** is wrong with me......

Someone please help this girl is killing me. And i Love her
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NRM

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Why are you in love with a girl who is killing you and treating you so badly? You can't force a girl to love you and seeing the way that she's treating you now, she will never love you.

You picked a girl with too much baggage. I don't care how much you love her, it will never work out because she does not love you the same way. Too many things about her kick you to your senses and drive you insane. Things aren't going to become stable. You two will not run off to the country together where no one will bother you two and there is nothing you can do about it.

Move on man. That's the only advice I can give you. You have to get it through your head that it is not going to work out. You are in love with someone who does not feel the same way. Why bother with that type of relationship? Things will never be happy for you, you will never feel good about it, just feel rejected and move on.

You're a man and you're whining like a baby. She fucked another guy, while you were left on the sidelines watching. I don't even know who told you or how you found out, but if she was really interested in you, she would have been doing you on Independence day rather than some guy who knocked her up.

You have no chance, realize it and suck it up like a man should.
 
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ZeeK

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Aww.... SO SAD!!! SO?!
*slaps*
Wake up man!!! There's so many girls out there waiting for you? Don't even try to force the cow the drink water when it's at the pond, but it doesn't want to!
I think you should leave her and start afresh! Wake up! This is the reality!
 
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She loves me though.
 
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blienk

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You spent a month in juvie but you're whining like a little girl over some slut? Come on Mr. Tough Guy, start acting like a man. This chick pulled the sexual equivalent of spitting right in your face...and you're standing there asking for more.

Have some self-respect, reading the DJ bible is a good start.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Destined
She loves me though.
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*Reaches through computer and cyber bitch slaps you* Wake up man! How old is she anyways? If she really loved you, she wouldn't have slept with the other guy. If you want to know what is wrong with you, you are having one-itis. That is just a fancy word for "hopelessly obsessed with one girl." She "loves" you yet spreads her legs for another guy? You still want her why? You love, because of...Oh right, there is no reason for you to love her, unless you specify a valid reason. You are only 15, you have no reason (or idea) what love is.

In short, shes a whore if she "loves" you, you need to grow some balls and realize she isn't right for you, read this site some more, and find new girls.
 
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LikRetsam

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You've hit puberty. So has she!

She is dominated by her hormones and can't control her little urges for sex. You're just another tool bro, get over it.
 
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Luscious

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You've still got a chance to do something with your life, so ditch her and get yourself in gear, buddy.

You've landed a real gearbox, bud. She's a certified 5-star nutbar. No matter how much you and her "love" each other, you're going to be hating life if you stay with her.

She's banging another guy. What are you going to do, 'talk' about it with her and play some goddamned pattycake? Jesus Christ on a damned bicycle man, pull yourself together and PITCH THAT *****.
 
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who in their right mind voted to work her back in? if they would have bothered to read the poor guys post its obvious hes whipped and shes not...shes screwed up...dude..by trying to win her back..by putting yourself out on the line for her..youre being the epitome of the idea of AFC....find somebody else man...before you screw your life over
 
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