"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Twelve Steps

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From my blog (http://fendersgame.blogspot.com/). Do this for 3 months. Then come back to learn the "advanced" stuff. Or maybe don't come back. Your choice.

Twelve steps

1. Work out. Although it'll get you looking like a model in no time, the main reason for doing it is to get you more confident about yourself and to get those "primal" feelings of aggression and masculinity in you. Start off doing squats, dealifts, benchpress and rows. 3 sets of 6-8 reps, heavy as you can go. Twice a week.
2. Stop reading "seduction" stuff. Read self-help/motivational books instead.
3. Find a fun hobby that you enjoy and will be proud of.
4. Get some good looking clothes.
5. When interacting, always be POSITIVE, and aim to make everyone FEEL GOOD and make yourself FEEL GOOD. Have fun!
6. Talk to EVERYONE! Grannie's, men, children... Spread the love!
7. Be genuinely complimentary.
8. Stick with Simple basic openers (e.g. "I saw you sitting here and I have to say you look very beautiful"). Or just introduce yourself.
9. Get basic compliance- have her talk, move her around, get her to DO stuff. Make sure she doesn't get bored.
10. Become her friend!
11. Move close to each other- close enough so that occasionally, you touch each other accidentally.
12. Don't push- just chill. Be zen and in the Moment.

Go do it. Now

(Inspired by Dmitri's "Beginner’s Guide to Natural Game")
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'd say do number 12 and stick to it and soon everything else will come to you intuitively.

You see we already have vast knowledge inside of us. You already know exactly how to get yourself any girl you want. You know eaxctly what to say, when to say it and have enough conversation inside you for 10 lifetimes. But it's all blocked. You just have to come out of your head and live in the moment. Once you manage that then all the anxiety and mental inhibitions melt away and you truely know what freedom is.

But the rest of the stuff is great too! :D :up:
 
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