Afternoon gents, I'd like to present a slight alteration on the Mystery Kiss-close routine. The main problem a lot of people have with the original is that it's a little bit too serious/rigid, and, to be honest, the follow-up "well I didn't say you could" kind of sucks as a contingency plan. I lightened it up a little bit to make it feel more natural. As usual, close physical proximity is a prerequisite, as are the pre-kiss IOI's. Here it is:
**A brief moment of casual over the shoulder eye contact. Bite your lower lip. Look at her the way you would look at a menu while trying to decide what to order. Pensive, intent, but at the same time oddly aloof**
PUA: So like, wanna make out? *Deliver with a Slight smirk*
Make it as non-chalant as possible, as though you were asking something mundane and everyday.
Response #1: Yes / I think so / Kind of / I shouldn't, but... / Not here... >> "Okay then. Come with me." >> Isolate and close
Response #2: Maybe / I don't know / I'm not sure >> Respond with "Let's find out. Come with me" >> Isolate and close
Response #3: No / Not now / I don't want to >> This is where the routine begins to branch from the mystery close.
(After getting response #3) PUA: Haha, you know you thought about it. Don't lie, I saw you. **Do a takeaway, lean back, transition immediately into a joking tone**
Usually, you will get some sort of generic joking response. On rare occasions you might lose your set at this point. No big deal; if interest was low enough that she walks off, you weren't getting a kiss anyway. You didn't "miss your shot," you just misjudged the interest from the start.
(After joking response) PUA: Listen. I'm not going to ask you a third time. Would. You. Like to kiss me. **Transition back into a serious tone before delivery**
Again, you will get Response #1, 2, or 3.
(After getting response #3 again) PUA: Alright, your loss.
******y funny tone, make a mock disappointed face. If possible, ignore her and talk to other people in the set; if not, eject**
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During my LTR, whenever my girlfriend interrupted me during a set, I'd occasionally introduce her by saying something like "This is my girlfriend. She is very open to sexual exploration. Would you like to join us in a threesome? You know you want to. She does this CRAZY thing with her tongue...No? Aww, that's too bad."
Unfortunately, I have yet to ride the tricycle, but I DID end up getting a lot of play on the side. Basically, what I've found is that the best way to handle rejections is to act like you weren't serious in the first place; this leaves the door open, and actually makes it much easier to close later on down the line. Think of it as negotiating for a price on an item: you start low, you don't expect the seller to accept your initial offer, but if you know what you're doing, you WILL end up getting it for much cheaper than the original asking price.
Kissing, and even sex, is not THAT big of a deal; it's actually VERY common. Once you get this concept ingrained in your head, getting the close is absolutely no problem.
**A brief moment of casual over the shoulder eye contact. Bite your lower lip. Look at her the way you would look at a menu while trying to decide what to order. Pensive, intent, but at the same time oddly aloof**
PUA: So like, wanna make out? *Deliver with a Slight smirk*
Make it as non-chalant as possible, as though you were asking something mundane and everyday.
Response #1: Yes / I think so / Kind of / I shouldn't, but... / Not here... >> "Okay then. Come with me." >> Isolate and close
Response #2: Maybe / I don't know / I'm not sure >> Respond with "Let's find out. Come with me" >> Isolate and close
Response #3: No / Not now / I don't want to >> This is where the routine begins to branch from the mystery close.
(After getting response #3) PUA: Haha, you know you thought about it. Don't lie, I saw you. **Do a takeaway, lean back, transition immediately into a joking tone**
Usually, you will get some sort of generic joking response. On rare occasions you might lose your set at this point. No big deal; if interest was low enough that she walks off, you weren't getting a kiss anyway. You didn't "miss your shot," you just misjudged the interest from the start.
(After joking response) PUA: Listen. I'm not going to ask you a third time. Would. You. Like to kiss me. **Transition back into a serious tone before delivery**
Again, you will get Response #1, 2, or 3.
(After getting response #3 again) PUA: Alright, your loss.
******y funny tone, make a mock disappointed face. If possible, ignore her and talk to other people in the set; if not, eject**
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During my LTR, whenever my girlfriend interrupted me during a set, I'd occasionally introduce her by saying something like "This is my girlfriend. She is very open to sexual exploration. Would you like to join us in a threesome? You know you want to. She does this CRAZY thing with her tongue...No? Aww, that's too bad."
Unfortunately, I have yet to ride the tricycle, but I DID end up getting a lot of play on the side. Basically, what I've found is that the best way to handle rejections is to act like you weren't serious in the first place; this leaves the door open, and actually makes it much easier to close later on down the line. Think of it as negotiating for a price on an item: you start low, you don't expect the seller to accept your initial offer, but if you know what you're doing, you WILL end up getting it for much cheaper than the original asking price.
Kissing, and even sex, is not THAT big of a deal; it's actually VERY common. Once you get this concept ingrained in your head, getting the close is absolutely no problem.