"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TV series of the day - Kung Fu

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TV series of the day: Kung Fu


I first started watching this show while I was in The Air Force. I highly recommend this show not only for the action, for the insightful introspective lessons you can learn to develop your character.


You should treat your character like Martial arts, admit your not perfect, have many flaws, but once you reach a certain level of descency, have the Jesus mindset that you’re still a very flawed man and still constantly working on yourself and your always failing but getting back up.


One thing you can learn about Kwai Chang Cain is he’s a minimalist. He’s quiet, soft spoken, and only takes a few seconds to kick a dude’s butt lol.


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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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When I was a kid I watched that show.

I always thought that dude was pretty cool.

Particularly when he showed his tats (not technically tats) and scared the crap out of people.
 

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wasnt bruce lee suppose to start in this
Yeah, supposedly start in it but they screwed him over for a Caucasian star like David Cassidy. Bruce Lee when you look it in Pop icon wise, started this whole MMA craze, he studied a lot of different styles of martial arts and made his own- Jeet Kune Do. All Men should learn how to fight at some point in their lives, 'it;s better to be a peaceful warrior training in a garden'.
 
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