"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TV series of the day - Kung Fu

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TV series of the day: Kung Fu


I first started watching this show while I was in The Air Force. I highly recommend this show not only for the action, for the insightful introspective lessons you can learn to develop your character.


You should treat your character like Martial arts, admit your not perfect, have many flaws, but once you reach a certain level of descency, have the Jesus mindset that you’re still a very flawed man and still constantly working on yourself and your always failing but getting back up.


One thing you can learn about Kwai Chang Cain is he’s a minimalist. He’s quiet, soft spoken, and only takes a few seconds to kick a dude’s butt lol.


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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When I was a kid I watched that show.

I always thought that dude was pretty cool.

Particularly when he showed his tats (not technically tats) and scared the crap out of people.
 

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wasnt bruce lee suppose to start in this
Yeah, supposedly start in it but they screwed him over for a Caucasian star like David Cassidy. Bruce Lee when you look it in Pop icon wise, started this whole MMA craze, he studied a lot of different styles of martial arts and made his own- Jeet Kune Do. All Men should learn how to fight at some point in their lives, 'it;s better to be a peaceful warrior training in a garden'.
 
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