"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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turning up the heat

bluemanson

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HI Guys

I have alittle dillema. u see this chic i know, well we had a thing a few years ago, but we were both in relationships so we never went that far, any way we met up yesterday again and we were at my place so things started to get heavy and then she says we cant do this cos she feels guilty,. ok we both in relationships again. but anyway, i know this girl wants me as bad as i want her + she came to me with no underwear on , now if that is not a sign of interest then i dont know what is.

Tonight she is coming over again cos she says she wants to do this but i dont think im turning up the heat as i should.

Any suggestions how i can make her feel more relaxed and how to make the situation more intense if you know what i mean .
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bluemanson

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im cooking her supper tonight as well

please guys anyone have advice.

where the senior don juans for this
 

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Well she came over last night and i played cool, neg her abit and turned up the ****y and funny . i thought if she thinks i was not that interested in having s$x, well i just wanted to see her reaction.

Anyway i have to say it worked cos not even an hour later we were in my bed breaking it.

I really thought it was not going to happen but it did and it went well, and next week she cooking for me .......
 
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