"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Scars

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So this girl approached me when I was feeling down today. I consider her a "friend" we've been talking for awhile. But today I was really depressed and she started talking to me and admitted that she liked me. It wasreally unexpected. I didn't say anything back but later she said she felt akward not knowing how I feel about her so she asked. And what I basically told her was that I seperate girls into two categories, Hook-up type, and relationship type and I told her she was a hook-up type. She then proceeded to tell me she would never do that and she is not a slut, etc. (anti slut defence?) I quickly told her I didn't think she was a slut, and then said something about it only being slutty if it's with a bunch of guys and that if it's just me, and sense we both like each other, it would be kind of be like having a relationship except without the "attachment". All she said was "I know." then I asked her if she still felt comfortable hanging out with me, and she said "yeah, I want to go to the the river with you. alone though". Alone?! Ahaha. This girl is confusing the **** out of me. Should I try and bang her then?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dude... first off, never tell a girl your intentions. Girls know if they're in a relationship or just getting banged. Some girls are happy with just getting banged.

Next time, if a girl asks you how you feel about her, and you just wanna bang her, simply tell her that you like her too, and leave it at that. You're not saying that you wanna be with her, definately not saying that you're in love with her. Then when the time is right, unleash the beast from your pants. Continue to see other women though. She'll realize that you guys aren't committed and won't pressure you into a relationship.

If she does try to get you to commit. Simply tell her that you're not ready for a relationship. You have to actually mean it though. If she finds out that you're in a serious relationship with someone else all that carefree booty will be out the window.
 
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