"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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On girls who got complements there whole life. The ****y type of girls.

Bust on em? Negs? Be different? Talk to less?


--Best way to go about talking to girls like this?
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Interesting topic. I'd like to see some responses to this.
 

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You know the type of chick im talking about. Shes ****y, but says it in a sorta joking way but more to mask her insecurities.Laughs at her self..etc Ive been using certain insecurities against her and busting her on it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PDubb75 said:
Right there..... is the purpose of negs.
Exactly what I thought. I bust her balls more then negs.

Ex- Shes tall. I tell her I ended up throwing my football on top of the empire state building, do a favor and reach up there and grab it.

Shes got some good comebacks tho, ill give her that.


In all honesty I dont care if me and her become friends, I need more women friends anyway

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Shes has a ****y attitude. Confident, but insecure. Was complemented her whole life so her ego blew up (as big as mine) Witty comebacks...etc
 
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