“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DonGello

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Getting Women.... Is not about women, it's about you.

Came back to the forum, and I just see too many guys focusing on women.
Improve yourself, women follow, I can attest to this.

My turning point was when I realized women are not the goal, my happiness is. If you are happy, women follow, and by happy... I mean genuine happiness.

Your Happiness > Women

Just thought some of you could use the reminder
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mr Wright

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Spot on. Most guys dont get it, they're too worried about which routine they are going to run and what the womans reaction is, when in reality, if you're happy and totally confident in yourself, you wont care. Here's a shock for some guys, a guy who doesnt care what a woman thinks tends to be more attractive than the guy whos clearly trying to get her to like him.
 

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Mr Wright said:
Spot on. Most guys dont get it, they're too worried about which routine they are going to run and what the womans reaction is, when in reality, if you're happy and totally confident in yourself, you wont care. Here's a shock for some guys, a guy who doesnt care what a woman thinks tends to be more attractive than the guy whos clearly trying to get her to like him.
Exactly.

That's why it drives me crazy when guys come on here creating these whiny topics about women. I don't care why women think how they think, or what "advantages" they have in the dating world. All I care about is my path to becoming a great man.

Getting women is a side effect of having goals. Getting women should not be a goal unto itself.
 

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Happiness will always remain as the sexiest attraction tool a man could have in his arsenal with the ladies. Nobody wants to be around a depressed,whiny, dry-personality dude.

This post deserves more attention :)
 

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A man gets a woman when he gets a life, a woman gets a life when she gets a man. Or something like that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Honestly, i got me a woman after like 3 months of self improvement, she's a babe and all.. but now that I have so much extra time to improve myself.. you'd be amazed at how easy getting girls is & how fun of a skill it is to have even when you dont need it. Becoming a DJ takes time remember that.

Conquer Fear. Be happy. Live life.

I'm not gonna make fun of any AFC's because I was there once. Focus on yourself, women follow, take it from a guy who has seen both sides.

Peace out
 
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