I waste hours a day starring at this stupid monitor. I'm turning this dang thing off for a month, unless it's to look up information that I need, no more wasting time on games, chat programs, etc. Gonna replace that time with something productive. I suggest others do the same. Adios.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Turning off the computer
- Thread starter jookins
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Kerensky
Master Don Juan
yessir. i actually got a computer that is so sh1tty that i can go online, but it can't run any games that were made before 95 lol.
also i made the internet so that i gotta set it up manually each time to connect. it sucks. but yeah, this comp also only has about 10 GB memory which i use for word processing/excel/etc. purposes, so games are outta the question.
i agree though. imma start today (thanksgiving holiday, not turkey day) and keep it off unless i gotta type something.
also i made the internet so that i gotta set it up manually each time to connect. it sucks. but yeah, this comp also only has about 10 GB memory which i use for word processing/excel/etc. purposes, so games are outta the question.
i agree though. imma start today (thanksgiving holiday, not turkey day) and keep it off unless i gotta type something.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Jookins is LURKING as we speak!!
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
Yet another superficial so called DJ who makes another superficial post saying HE IS ALL GREAT and powerful
You're like those pathetic f@g boys that post "I'm leaving SS, cause all of you are dumb" "Everyone is wrong, except for me here are the answers to life" "God damn, get in the real world, LOG OFF!!!"
To those people, suck my my schlong, suck it long and hard.
You're like those pathetic f@g boys that post "I'm leaving SS, cause all of you are dumb" "Everyone is wrong, except for me here are the answers to life" "God damn, get in the real world, LOG OFF!!!"
To those people, suck my my schlong, suck it long and hard.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
if you are really busy you don't use your computer too much anyway. i work a lot so i mainly just use it for a bit in the evenings just browsing the internet and a bit of other stuff but if getting a ****ty old computer helps do it - i would do the same in your position.
Keeper
Master Don Juan
Hear hear...
Gaming destroys game. I'm selling this 2gb ram/6800 ultra/3200 and replacing with a cheap notebook just for my writing! Been thinking about it for a while now... yeah...
Gaming destroys game. I'm selling this 2gb ram/6800 ultra/3200 and replacing with a cheap notebook just for my writing! Been thinking about it for a while now... yeah...
I purposely never upgraded computers after 2000. Yes..I'm using the same five (almost six) year old machine since then with an incredible 733 mhz.
I've had plenty of opportunities to upgarde to something modern, but I know that doing so would put me in a big risk of f*cking up my social life and school career (once again) with all the games and sh!t...just like I did back in 2000 - 2001 during Counter-Strike and everything else.
If you don't play games, then wtf is the point of having a 3ghz computer anyway? All you really need are word processor/spreadsheet program, Internet connection, maybe an Internet messaging program, access to MP3s, and a media player for watching porn. A 733mhz machine more than accomplishes these five tasks.
The extent of games I rarely play are checkers and spades and the sh!t that comes with Windows. They bore me so much I usually have to force myself to run them.
Also I don't play consoles anymore either. When someone offers me to come play Xbox or PS2 or whatever the f*ck I simply pass.
Do I miss it? Probably. But it does sh!tloads more harm than good for people like me with an addictive personality.
I really have no other choice during the day but to get the f*ck outside when I'm finished typing up my work and/or looking sh!t up online...and occasionally visiting the two forums I'm apart of and watching porn to get horny enough to want to f*ck something...because it gets boring as hell here.
You should definitely do the same if you're aware of this problem and allow it to affect other parts of your life.
I've had plenty of opportunities to upgarde to something modern, but I know that doing so would put me in a big risk of f*cking up my social life and school career (once again) with all the games and sh!t...just like I did back in 2000 - 2001 during Counter-Strike and everything else.
If you don't play games, then wtf is the point of having a 3ghz computer anyway? All you really need are word processor/spreadsheet program, Internet connection, maybe an Internet messaging program, access to MP3s, and a media player for watching porn. A 733mhz machine more than accomplishes these five tasks.
The extent of games I rarely play are checkers and spades and the sh!t that comes with Windows. They bore me so much I usually have to force myself to run them.
Also I don't play consoles anymore either. When someone offers me to come play Xbox or PS2 or whatever the f*ck I simply pass.
Do I miss it? Probably. But it does sh!tloads more harm than good for people like me with an addictive personality.
I really have no other choice during the day but to get the f*ck outside when I'm finished typing up my work and/or looking sh!t up online...and occasionally visiting the two forums I'm apart of and watching porn to get horny enough to want to f*ck something...because it gets boring as hell here.
You should definitely do the same if you're aware of this problem and allow it to affect other parts of your life.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
haha FOR ONCE I AGREE WITH YOU.
there is no way im giving up my computer because I dont life life???
maybe this is your life? why do u feel a need to change because someone is?
I just bought a new $1500 desktop computer, and I bought a few new video games to go along with it. But I manage to workout everyday, party every weekend, go on dates, get laid once or twice by this girl I'm dating, and have fun. Just b/c I'm a computer techy doesn't mean I don't live life.
Moral of the story: Quit blaming the computer for your inability to go out of the house, be social, and get laid. I bet after you stop using your computer you'll just be in front of the tv. Hell, I've had pneumonia since Monday, and I've barely been out of the house since then. I've been posting on this site all day long. I personally don' t know how some of u can just be couch potatoes all day.
Moral of the story: Quit blaming the computer for your inability to go out of the house, be social, and get laid. I bet after you stop using your computer you'll just be in front of the tv. Hell, I've had pneumonia since Monday, and I've barely been out of the house since then. I've been posting on this site all day long. I personally don' t know how some of u can just be couch potatoes all day.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.