i wanted to know since im not able to get this grl by herself anytime soon. i would like to get her thinking about me sexually. but im not sure if doing it on the phone or in person would b better. I was thiknin of saying my brother needed advice on his first time having sex with a grl and be descriptive about it so she gets the picture in her head. any help please
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
turning her on with words
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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There is an easy way to do this, look the girl straight in the eyes, deepen your voice, and say "I want to fvck you baby", this is very direct, the result of it can go in two very different directions, either you get the fvck that you want, or the girl never wants to see you again, the truth of the matter is if she's ever going to fvck you its going to happen if you say this, just do it. 
izza
Master Don Juan
That's a good tip, I've heard it's very effective. I think the best way is just to talk about what sex positions you prefer or lotion types. That kind of stuff. You just say "the other day I tried this new position... etc." You just say that out of nowhere. Other ways to lead into this kind of conversation are just talking about massages, food, kissing, cuddling, etc.
izza
Master Don Juan
Also, tell her you find her sexy and find some personality trait that makes her so in your eyes. Tell the truth and learn to find these things. When I call a girl sexy and give a good reason, generally she starts chasing after me. It hasn't failed yet, though I'm sure it will sometime soon.