Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Turning down women because of ethics

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by RedKnight04
This is a valid point. I just moved and slept for over a month with a woman who was engaged. At first I didn't mind it but I felt bad eventually. And the guy was in the army too. I FELT REALLY $HITTY!! But then I thought like Francisco up on that quote. She did tell me all the things that he was lacking in both the bedroom and personality. THE WHOLE NINE YARDS.
And when it comes down to it, who's doing the cheating? If she's comfortable with it, so be it. Hopefully she'd stop if she changes her mind.

Now I think I should reiterate that I do not go after married women or women in any type of relationship. I'll talk with them and can be friends with them without any problems. However, if they pursue me, I would at least consider the possibility of seeing them on different terms, my terms. Not to say I would do this with any married woman that approaches me, but some things (rather women) are definitely worth considering.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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