"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Turning 30 Soon...Any Thoughts?

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SoCalMike

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i agree about lying

i knew a 21YO girl who met a 32YO guy at a rave. the guy lied and said he was 25, and after they had hooked up he confessed his real age. at first she was a little shocked, but quickly realized that she liked him regardless. the important thing is, this girl would have never considered being with him if she knew his age up front.

i'm almost 31, but i look 25. i haven't tried going for younger 18-21YO women yet (been with 23-27YO's for the past 3 years) but i *will* go for it at some point and will just say i'm 25.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Turning 30 didn't bother me. Turning 40 didn't either.

I have a difficult time getting any women online because I don't lie about my age (44) and I look about 28 to 32.

In person, I have a big advantage with younger women. I don't let the age thing come up until after we've f***ed. Now, I do much better with women in their 20's (even as low as 19) than I did when I was in my late 20's. The difference is confidence and having your life together.
 
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